i i think i love him but it has only been 3 weeks and i had sex with him........but he is really really sweet and nice and i can trust him.......should i reget it???????
2007-02-03 03:02:22 · 13 answers · asked by christel s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't confuse love with sex.
Never regret what you've done learn from what you've done good or bad
Only time will tell
2007-02-03 03:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by Todd C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say you cannot possibly know someone that well after three weeks. For all you know, he is a professional at getting what he wants as long as it works for him. This could all be a facade. On the other hand, he really could be a nice guy and it really might be a relationship that will last for a long while. My personal thoughts, while not relevant, are that trust is something that takes longer than three weeks to earn and that sex is something that should be shared only with someone you are sure you love with all of your heart.
2007-02-03 03:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by oleander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think if you absolutely know him well enough than you can make your own decisions. But if you arent positive you can trust him give it a couple of months and hopefully things will go smoothly. We have all had a relationship where we think were in love and were not. I've had those before but if you really love him as much as you say sit him down and talk to him. Just ask him questions about his life. Ya know the usual things. Usually by then you know if you are meant to be. :)
2007-02-03 03:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by Smart Gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off...you're not "in love" with him. True love don't happen in 3 weeks. True love takes time to grow, nuture and be tested. I'm not saying you have feelings for him. I'm saying you're not "in love" with him. Anyone can have sex with anyone they don't love.
It's all infatuation and lust. My advice to you is to: Slow down and really get to this guy first before you go doing all this banging walls and stuff. Discover if you are compatible on things in life, if you both have great things in common. Or better yet, find a good man to be your husband and then "do it" the right way! =)
2007-02-03 03:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't trust him.
3 weeks?
my goodness, what has this world come to.
Never put out within the first 2 months of dating.
Not only are you two strangers, you don't know what his intentions were.
For all you know, he could dump you any time now.
2007-02-03 03:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience, Girl. Don't regret it, but don't dive into it without looking first. Give the situation time, and then you'll discover if it was worth the trouble, okay?
2007-02-03 03:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely not. if u love him then u have nothin to be ashamed of..I believe u could b in luv within 3 weeks..i believe in love at first sight 2... GOOD LUCK
2007-02-03 03:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by mzsprouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should regret it it takes alot longer to fall in love with someone love takes time
2007-02-03 03:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just the sex talking. Damn girl it was that good?
2007-02-03 03:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by bribri8785 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold your horses, 3 weeks is nothing.. you are not in love yet, it doesnt come that easy.. get to know him more
2007-02-03 03:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by gone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋