I have a boyfriend, for 3 years, since i was 13. i'm now 16.
But recently ive had uncontrolable feelings for someone else. i love my boyfriend SO much. We've grown up together. ive been with him through some pretty harsh times. i mean.. he was my first time, thats a big thing to me. But ive never had the thrill of being with someone else. And suddenly i really really want it. And ive got really close with another boy. two years older. He tells me how mad he is about me, and how amazing we could be together ALL the time. And he's one of those people that i can just talk to for hours and never run out of things to say. i feel so bad for liking him. But i also find it really really hard to just stop talking 2 him.. and beleive me, ive tried. he makes me feel good. he flatters me..
How can i sort this mess out?? please help!? *DOES THIS MEAN IM A BAD PERSON? AND HAS ANYONE ELSE EXPERIENCED THE SAME THING AS ME????
2007-02-03 02:47:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, 13 years old isnt really dating... and your 16now which isnt even an adult...its OOOOK to feel the things your feeling..
im glad your feelings these things, you should...even if you feel like you shouldnt be attarcted or like someone else, its ok to bc your still young...your feelings about boys will change yet again in another couple of years.... wouldnt you rather date now and explore relationships BEFORE you marry the first guy you've ever slept with and not know if there was ever somebody else better suited for you?
2007-02-03 02:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you what I have taken notice of...When you are with a person for a long time from a young age, after a while you get the urge to "explore", and that can make the new person seem so incredible. the feelings are overwelming, but in my experience it is best to just ride them out and pull through with the person you have been with. That person has stuck by you abd been there for you. especailyl at your age, alot of guys really just want a piece of ***. Most likely, you would just get hurt if you were to leave your boyfrind for another guy. If you want the best results in the long run, then thats ther best thing to do.
2007-02-03 10:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by williamjohnwelch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not bad just human, perhaps you need to explore your feeling its a well known fact that people who get together too young never get a chance to explore sexual urges, it will destroy you later if you can't sort it out now, curiosity killed the cat, but satisfaction bought him back,
2007-02-03 10:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are soooo young, no need to bound yourself to one guy from now, your feelings for the other guy are totally justifiable, maybe it is time you take a break and see other people and if you and your boyfriend are meant for each other, then it will happen no matter what.
2007-02-03 10:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by gone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break from ur bf, sort things out..and first time?! whats tht supposed to mean...u really shouldnt be doing these things at ur age
2007-02-03 10:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by Paul R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the other guy just wants your pants down, a relationship will never happen, he will use you and throw you away.
Choice is yours at the end of the day
2007-02-03 10:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by dan.harris9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋