we were talking before but since school sched changed we havent talked in a while. she said to me she was quite upset and has expressed disappointment. still, we havent talked. honestly, im just afraid to be friends with her coz she may not like me, and sometimes, i just have nothing to say wich may just turn her off, so i just want to be a mystery. she has expressed she likes me (i dont know if it's in a friendly way or quite more...she's bi..im a girl. she doesnt know i am too). how can i be confident with her and not run out of things to say? I dont want to lose her...
PS not so long ago, i was hurt by a girl who lost attraction for me bcoz our conversation was dry.
2007-02-03 02:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to recount your chickens the bible says adam and eve not adam and steve.
2007-02-03 02:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to have more self esteem. Love and relationships are made to find what we like in the other person. We grow as we learn how and what we like in each other. Don't be afraid of losing her as once the mystery is gone which is not long after the relationship starts as women need more than mysterious partners. They need to know how you feel about them, how you feel about life, how you see yourself and how you see them. Mystery is just a start to get their interest in you. But now you have to suck it up and be you. If she can not handle you then try again with another. There are many women out there and you have a life time to find the one just for you. Keep going, be yourself, she will love you for you, if not, find someone else. That is how life is, the better you can understand that, the better off you will be in your life altogether. Good Luck
2007-02-03 02:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit down and find things in common with her, things like movies hobbies people family life , all you have to do is open up a little some people dont talk much b/c their self esteem is low but dont lie to her if she asks you any important questions if you feel uncomfortable answering them then tell her and she might help you understand why its so uncomfortable to tak.... Ps... I have alot of friends who come to me to talk about things like this I dont know why but I guess I just have the right answers towards most things
2007-02-03 02:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well..it is important that you become friends with her because that could start a relationship. Just tell her that u are not the best at small talk and if she likes to talk she would probably come up with a topic to talk about. it is ok to be bi so just go up to her and give her your phone number and say "call me sometime." I think that she might get the message.
2007-02-03 02:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by FairyPrincess 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My character My virginity (simply by fact i don't think of there's a guy available it rather is likewise, and if he isn't, he particular does not need to have me) My kin My humorousness My starvation for know-how My interest for romance
2016-09-28 08:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you i no this sound stupid propose if your old enough or if young talk to her every day you said you have nothing to her say Is this relationship gonna end just because we have different schools and see what her answer is good luck have a great day
2007-02-03 02:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her to join you for coffe or Ice cream and go with a subject on your mind even gay marrige and talk about that.Follow the conversation and at the end you will Know hoe she feels.
2007-02-03 02:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by Cupcake Flavor Soda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Quite feeling sorry for yourself, get on with it already. You have your whole life to find someone else. Are you a fifty year old mother of two with no one to share the rest of your life with? Because that's what you sound like.
2007-02-03 02:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you must ask her if she likes you as a friend or as more. Then you must tell her your thoughts. Be honnest. If you have nothing to say thats fine, just tell her. Not all women want to hear things to say, they just want to know that your there for them. We women do not always need an answer, most of us just want a friend that will really listen to us when needed, weather you have somthing to say or not.
2007-02-03 02:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by Nina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is a toughy but i would tell her your bi too. see what she says and if you already like her and she has said she likes you i would go for it. conversations are hard because your kind of nervous and stuff so start by asking her about her family and what she likes and what she doesnt like. start by saying one of your likes or what you have dreamed of doing a conversation will deff pop up. i hope i helped! good luck!
2007-02-03 02:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It does not matter what you talk about it could be the stupidest thing but if its funny she'll laugh and that's a start
2007-02-03 02:49:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋