Why are beautiful women lonely?

Question

Ever noticed that some of the most beautiful women can also be the most lonely of all? I am not saying this is the case with everyone! I wonder why this is the case? Of course, maybe a few will have an off-putting personality such as having no manners or are just plain rude, so perhaps that's why these attractive ladies are lonely. But I've also seen many other who are really nice, with good hearts and pleasing manners towards everyone. Plus the ladies I know are also very intelligent and well-read. And yet they are home alone. You would think that they will be asked out all the time but they're not, and sometimes they only have one good girlfriend. Any philosophies, insights, experiences?

P.S. I am a woman myself- not necessarily pretty in my own eyes.

Answer 1

its because the type of girls u r talking about are willing 2 wait for 'mr right'....they are not like other girls, who 'need' a man because they are lonely or cant be alone due 2 other issues.

these beautiful educated smart women are only interested in certain guys, most guys they meet they dont like in a relationship type way. they find most guys are a waste of their time.

i guess the biggest reason a beautiful, intelligent girl is single, is because she chooses 2 be, obviously she could have any man she wants.

another reason is because guys are intimidated by the beautiful, smart non typical girl. they r a whole different kind of challenge.

another thing, maybe the girl was hurt by a previous boyfriend, so she cant trust another guy, this was the case for me, my girlfriend was hurt by her ex, so she stayed away from guys til she met me, she said she was a 'man hater' - she was single for more than 6 yrs, and trust me, she is beautiful and educated. some girls cant just go from one relationship to another.

Answer 2

Lonely Beautiful Women

Answer 3

Everyone gets lonely and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

That being said I hardly ever see a stunning woman completely alone - however often lonely. I see many find a man and once they are off the marked they are not interesting to men anymore, and other females feel intimidated being friends with someone far more attractive than them so they get isolated easily.

I have seen this phenomenon a lot, not "Candise Swanepoel" looking women sitting alone without a boyfriend OR friends..

But maybe thats just me :o)

If you are reading this, have a great day !

Answer 4

Good question and never thought of it before...
Beautiful women have this wonderful asset and they could also be the target of some men who take advantage of their situation. For example, if these men are rich and famous themselves they want a beautiful woman to be beside them all the time and so the expectations of these women are just too much for them because they have to behave in a certain way to match the status quo of these men. So if they are just bimbos and can't match up to them then they loose their self esteem and become targets of violant abuse. Alternatively, beautiful women may also desire to have men who are good looking or match up to their expectations and so are selective when it comes to having men companionship. So their excuse for being lonely could be that they are waiting for the 'right' person to come along. And so life for them is a waiting game ......

Answer 5

It is true in many cases- I think there are a few possibilities:

1. Men would date a beautifull woman and there would be no electricity, so she gets serious, he dumps her and that leaves her scarred
2. A man comes allong and is intimidated by her beauty, she gets involved in a posessive & sometimes violent relationshp- she gets scarred
3. Men are attracted to her for her beauty allone, women need more then that- she becomes wary
4. Females are intimidated by going out with her in a group, so they prefer to not befriend her
5. Females are threatened and do not like her being the centre of attraction- so they snub her

etc... etc... etc...

I do not consider myself a beautiful woman, but when I was younger I was- never knew that then- only realise it now when looking at pic's- I used to feel unworthy, ugly and so on.... because of the above point.

Now being older I know why people re-acted that way towards me and why I avoided them later on. Strange but true.

But then: I had some great friends who r still here today. Just my life experience- wish I could do it all over again

Answer 6

Most guys see beautiful women to be high matinence and that's most likely not a good thing. Though there are those guys that like a girl who can take care of herself, is materialistic, and is beautiful...there are those that see that as being too costly and time consuming. Personally, my fiance is one of those guys that can appreciate the fact that it takes me an hour to do my hair and that I like to go shopping every weekend. But, I also let him get to know that relaxed side of me that likes to sit at home in my sweats and lounge around and cuddle all day. We could be goint to the country club or to McDonalds and he knows that I still need a while to get ready to go. The reason that beautiful women are lonely is because there aren't enough great men out there to appreciate the fact that we do it for them!

Answer 7

Men are afraid of them and afraid of rejection if they start 'chatting' them up. I had this problem 50 odd years ago (she says modestly) All my plain bespectacled friends got handsome men, they never approached me at all. Across a dance floor I'd be asked to dance by the most spotty, ugly men you'd ever see. I was just a young, naive and as gentle and kind as my friends.....well we all are at 16, aren't we? I ended up with a 'gonk' that I married/divorced. Then did the same mistake again. The only time I've have been chatted up is while I have been married and they know I'm not available.
The worst part if that, is that my number two husband is really ugly too but I realise now I was just a token on his arm, that is quite plain, as he treats me with such indifference now that I am a pensioner. He is always leering at young women and his ego is such, that he truly believes he should be with one.

Answer 8

MAYBE.........
Because people seem to only see the outside of the person, and not the inside.
I feel the same about myself. Well at this point in my life and i hope it will change.
My energy has been sucked by those people who only see the outside. Now i would just rather concerntrate on myself than having a lot of wasted energy around me. Now don't get me wrong, i know what u r going to say. That it is kind of rude to have that attitude as i may be missing out on a good person. U can have 100 beautiful nice people around u, and 1 energy sucker around u. U always remember the energy sucker. it sux i know. But after a while, it is tiring.

Answer 9

i would not say that i was beautiful but i have found myself in numerous situations where i am saying to a guy who is after me that it is not the outside that is important but the inside, infact i got sick of saying " i would like to think you were interested in me for my mind or because you like to be around me" for some reason or the other the men i have met seem to be interested in a woman's beauty,body shape rather than the intelligent conversation that i like to have with my girlfriends or platonic boy friends.Maybe these guys in paticular were shallow, insecure or air heads but you'll find that there are a lot of sensible men out there that are looking to treat a woman with respect no matter what she looks like.As far as the 'beautiful' woman's role is concerned maybe she is fed up of being used for sex or lied to ( but i am sure alot of women can say this has happened) or is giving off the wrong vibes beauty can get you a man for a night but i think to get a life long partner takes inner strength and beauty

Answer 10

Haha I love this question!
My opinion (in a general sense):

1.) Beautiful women can be surprisingly self-conscious. They have been told numerous of times that they're beautiful, making them more aware of their appearance, and this self-consciousness towards their image can inhibit them from freely expressing themselves, stepping out of their comfort zone, and doing things that would disrupt this "beautiful" image of themselves that others/society have imposed on them. This barrier could be difficult to overcome in romantic relationships.

2.) Beautiful women attract the wrong men. They have had experience being pursued by men who are into them because of superficiality. In fact, some may only know these kinds of men. These men are very active in their pursuit, showering attention onto these beautiful women, but may not want something genuine, which may be what a beautiful and intelligent woman (like you described) would want. This discrepancy could create distrust for men.