The girl I have a crush on brought me brownies to work for my birthday. She knows I love brownies and these were delicious. By doing this it only makes me like her more. The problem is she says she is seeing a guy but that it is not that serious. I sometimes think she has a crush on me too but we never talk about it. What the hell do I do?
2007-02-03 02:19:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tricky situation.
You mentioned she brought the brownies to work. Does this mean you're co-workers? If so, I would have to caution you about dating co-workers. It's never a good idea.
But if she showed up where YOU work, with a homemade gift, that shows a lot of effort on her part. There very well may be an attraction on her part, as well.
It's just too bad about the "not that serious BF." Is she keeping this guy around as her "back-up" until something better comes along? Are they really serious and she's just putting out signals to see if other guys find her attractive?
There seems to be a lot going on with the situation. Maybe you would be better off finding a SINGLE girl outside of your work environment to focus your energies on.
2007-02-03 02:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Angela B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she may be confused between you and this other guy. I mean, if she clearly liked this guy, she would have been more protective about her relationship...as in, why would she tell you that shes kinda seeing this other guy, and its sorta not serious....? get my point.... anyways, as far as the brownies go, take it slow, brownies could mean anything, but its def. a sweet gesture...and hey, us ladies love the bold guys! if you like her, then approach her like this, except in your own little way:
"I respect the fact that you are seeing someone else, but i need to let you know, bc if i dont tell you whats been on my mind, i think i might just go nuts....." and then tell her how you feel...
believe me, she will not only love the fact that you were so bold about it, but you were also respectful and not just some guy trying to hit on some other guys lady... besidies, it looks like she is interested in you, so test the waters a bit with this sweet talk and good luck!
ALSO, if you want to be REALLY flirty, you can bring her a simple rose, (not a dozen thats pushing it) but maybe a nice red rose, as a thank you for those brownies ;) they wiill give the message without saying a wordddddd....... ;)
2007-02-03 10:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by SassyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is about risks and taking chances. You will never know what could happen if you never try. Ask her out. Tell her how thoughtful making those brownies was. How you appreciate here kindness.Bottom line..go for it because it may not present itself again!
2007-02-03 10:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by pnut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the brownies were delicious, and ask her if she wants to go out sometime. Maybe find out what one of her faveorite snacks is and return the kind gesture.
2007-02-03 10:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by Leo_Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if she gave you brownies that she is alittle bit interested..Why did she mention that her relationship with the guy is not that serious???? Just take it slow and see what happens & don't ruin a good friendship. If their relationship is not that serious and shes interested in you then she will come around. Patience my man.........
2007-02-03 10:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Squirrlee-1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that the brownies were excellent that no one never done that for u before. she is into u more than u think if i were u i would try to make my move to win her heart. play ur cads right seduce her with sweet words until u find out if she has any feelings for u.
2007-02-03 10:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enojy the brownies, and then do something nice for her. she wants to make sure everything is stable before she leaves the first guy. she likes you a lot.
2007-02-03 10:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by ~YuM yUm LoLipOpS~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. Be friends in the meantime, but if anything else was meant to come of it, it will. But it's best to just let those things come naturally.
2007-02-03 10:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Understood 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask her.Maybe she will tell you.Its better to find out now then be sorry later
2007-02-03 10:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. What's the problem here?
2007-02-03 10:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋