couch most of the time. I have brought this up to him on many occasions about how it makes me feel. It doesn't seem like I'm getting through to him. Is it time for me to cut the relastionship off since he doesn't seem like he wants to sleep with me anymore. He said he keeps falling asleep on the couch. It's not like I don't give it up to him. We make love about 4-5 times a week. What should I do?
2007-02-03 01:46:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you snore?
2007-02-03 01:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would sit him down and have an honest conversation about this. (which it sounds like you already did) This time let him know that in additon to it bothering you that it is pushing you away from him that you feel like the relationship isnt working. Tell him you dont WANT to wnd it but want to work it out being you love him. Let him know things need to change or he might lose you.
Being that he says he fall asleep on the couch, wake him up and say "hun you are falling asleep lets go to bed"
Good luck.
2007-02-03 09:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax a little and just keep talking to him without driving him crazy. My bf sleeps on the couch a lot, but we have a great relationship. After 31/2 yrs it is still like we are dating. Just try not to over react untill you have a for sure reason to.
2007-02-03 09:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Yomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are on such different schedules it's unreal... I am very much a morning person...he a night owl...therefore I go to bed and he still has things to do or wants to watch t.v and ends up falling asleep on the couch...to be honest it is nice having the bed all to myself, unless of course we r feelin' frisky! lol Been this way approx. 13 years now married for 16! Anyway GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-03 10:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by justmedrt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like hes tryin to tell you something without telling you. My husband falls asleep on the couch too, ocasionally, not everynight, does he work late? Is there a reason that he is onthe couch late night anyways other than sleeping?
2007-02-03 09:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by cristy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET rid of the couch...hehehe.....nah wen ur going to bed, drag him to bed or tell him straight that if hes going to carry on falling asleep on the couch then why should there be a relationship
2007-02-03 09:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by lil_pwrincesss_kim 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure about my answer. I don't want to offend you either, but maybe he needs a break from sex....I know i have to have a t.v. on to fall asleep to. try suggestin putting a t.v. in the room.
2007-02-03 09:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by jay b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on the couch with him,maybe ifyou snuggle up to him there he will see how much you want to be next to him and you'll both end up in the bedroom.know what I mean?Yeehaw!
2007-02-03 09:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by gene e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋