What is the most important thing you look for in a man? i-e humor, money, looks, job, manhood, etc etc, im getting mixed signals from a girl! she tells me that sex is out of this world with me but that i need to work on other parts of a relationship! im confussed! please help!! x
2007-02-03 01:45:26 · 28 answers · asked by Fred 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its good to be able to laugh with someone, but communication is the most important thing, she shouldnt try and change you into her ideal, you should be yourself, and not be what someone wants you 2 be, i think the most imprtant thing is a man being confident to be himself
2007-02-03 01:58:52 · answer #1 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok listeni am that woman, im tring to get my man to understand what i really need. This is what a woman needs..... this could be long and i like to use examples.... hope you have time....ok number one, a woman wants to SEE you care about her. This is one of my biggest complaints. Yes i know my man cares, but he needs to show it. a little thing to do that i just wish he would do would be something like him watching tv, never anything that i want to watch, in the middle of one of your favorite shows hand her the remote and ask her if she would like to watch something she likes.. another big that that women want is attention, but not all up our butt attention, distant but right there for us. We over exaggerate things yes... why? attention, its a way to prove to us you care. We want to atleast think that your life could not go on with out us, but dont tell us that. If you get to mushy with a woman than she is not going to be excited but the little things that we want and then the relationship gets old and boring. Some women are out there for money, and those are not the ones you want if you want to find true love. But all women want to know you have a steady life and income we dont want to take care of you. Humor is a must but not over the top. Job was stated in the money thing. Looks, yes you have to have an attraction to the person you are in a relationship with, manhood only counts when you lack in all the other places and as far as a relationship it will not last long with just that. and if a woman tell you that sex is out of this world usually its not, most women i know dont say anything but to each other about the sex, we dont want yall to run around with a big head. Hope this helps a little. 1 more piece of advice to rember that will solve all relationship problems, jsut give in everyonce in a while we will all be happier
2007-02-03 02:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can make a relationship alright and she might be saying its mind blowing. But she wants you to create a relationship with her,emotional,a friendship. I'm pretty sure she would think the sex was 80 times better then "out of this world" if you were in a compatible relationship,where you shared thoughts, opinions,and maybe and emotional connection.
2007-02-03 01:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's messing you around.
Personality is the most important thing. I do not think money is important, but many women do. As long as somebody worked hard and was ambitious in their own way, that would be fine with me. Looks are not so important but you have to fancy the person, I suppose, being honest.
2007-02-03 22:48:36 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All woman are differant sum care on how gd the sex driv is others care about how much u want to have sex wid them most women want it to be making love not just sex they want to be felt like they are cared for an that there sum 1 special 90% on that has to be communication and thought !
2007-02-03 02:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the most important things in any man are trust, communication, and self confidence. because if you dont have these things, then where is your relationship going to head? you need to be able to trust your man. talking is HUGE! with no communication it is just physical and your relationship does not have a solid foundation. and self confidence always helps, because you want to have fun and not have to worry about if they feel akward or umcomfortable. just work on it, one step at a time.
2007-02-03 02:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by Isabell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He should be stable. If he has a job then that's a plus point.
2. We have to be on the same wavelength. We can talk about anything and everything... no hang-ups.
3. He has to be God-fearing.
2007-02-03 02:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by Banging Hot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is based on trust,faith,hope, and love. You need a job and a great personality. Sex isn't everything. So start talking to her and get to know her better
2007-02-03 01:52:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love a guy that looks after you. has a car pays for you gives you his jacket a funny guy is great and passion is important .
btw most girls dont like huge "manhood" as pain is a factor
2007-02-03 01:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by cherrielicker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women may have ideals but what it boils down to is how you feel when you're together (and apart) - we all just want to be happy.
Tis all about chemistry, the sex may be good but maybe you just don't make each other feel good outside the bedroom?
2007-02-03 01:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋