what should i do, make the next step again?

Question

I asked a girl at my work out, she had just started dating a guy day before, but she said she would have said yes if i had asked few days earlier.

about week later i asked her if she wanted to hang out one day she said yes, and we spent a great day together, ice cream, fair rides, pool, and a lot of talking. I asked her out again then but she said she was confused as she was with this other guy

week later (tonight), at work, we talked and talked and flirted and flirted. And i swear she was trying to have me ask her again, but i just couldnt, i didnt wanna be told no again. I swear her best friend was even trying to get me to ask.

Ill see her in 3 days, what should i do?, ask her if she wants to hang out again? ask about bf? i want to date her, i just dont wanna put myself out 3rd time in 3 weeks to get a no.

I think she wanted me to go clubbing with her tonight, but she never asked, just talked about it, and asked what i was doing.

Answer 1

get it out in the open. seems you both communicate well with each other. tell her you don't want to play 2nd fiddle. and because you're a good guy, you're not going to poach another man's girl.

Answer 2

Well, if you don't want to look dumb, then don't ask her! Have her ask you...;-)! ☺! When you see her, don't ask. If you'd rather keep your mouth quiet, and not be rejected again, then I'd just talk about the super bowl. Sure, if u wanna butt into her personal life, and emmbaress ur self and ask her about her bf, then go right ahead! But girls dont like that, but I am sure if she liked you, she wouldn't mind. Just ask, "So, when you and the boy gonna meet up again?" Maybe she will say, something you want her to say, he blew it! Good luck! Hope u get her! And quit eating out of her hands, she has in u in her hands, and hun u need to climb out. Don't ask a third time. Maybe in a little while...? Go clubing with her, you can atleast get to know her as a friend.

Answer 3

hello there:-) im ashley...anyways , 2 ans ur question, im looking at it frm a gal's point of view...sometimes we gals have a habit of teasing guys n wait for their reaction. when we do get a response, we wud (on purpose) say no or pretend we hadnt done anything at all...call it a gal's way of having fun...it can be very hurting, especially for the guy on d recieving end, but u juz gotta knw when it's a game n when it's for real...im proud tat u had d guts 2 make d first move, but i suggest u ignore her til she stops her little game n learn 2 appreciate u first...hope tis clears ur mind a little ya...all d best anyways!!

Answer 4

In my opinion, and remember I'm a girl, she's playing with your feelings...i mean, one day she flirts with you, the other she said no to your invitation...she's obviously confused with herself, and if she's actually playing with your feelings, it's not because she wants. Although, you should leave her for now, to see if she calms down and decides what to do with her life.

Answer 5

the new boyfriend thing is baffling,, when a woman meets a new guy that is all they think about,, most guys are players today so she will be alone soon.. wait it out if you realy like her,, young people change boyfriend,/girlfriend like most people change their underwear

Answer 6

Wait til she breaks it off with the other guy

Answer 7

don't give up...and don't shy..try and try to got her big YES!you have to show her that you like her very much and your sincire.......i know she like you too......,just be true to your self ok?and respect to too much...be gentle at all times....at the end you'll be happy at her..be patient..go guys.................."FIGHTING"=)