Me and this girl used to be Very good friend, we teased each other a lot, and we laugh together and we talk a lot. Now she's starting to being nice to me, i feel like a whole distance away from her, i can't talk to her, because she's being too nice to me....wth.... what's wrong with me....?
2007-02-03 01:23:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you guys are just, maturing, including you, and you don't see that in yourself, and you just want to keep playing, and playing like a five year-old! She is maturing, girls mature faster than boys! And maybe, she is starting to look at you in a whole 'nother way! Maybe she wants to be more than very good friends with you, like sometimes, it may be hard to picture with that girl that you played with in the sand box when you were five, or the girl that you swung on the tire swing with at the park when you were seven. And you think it's a bad thing that she is looking at this is in a more "mature" way, which is basically (in boy langue) you don't want her to be nice? And if she doesn't want you fooling around with her, then don't! Hun, if you're just your same old self, then NOTHING is wrong with you. And if all of a sudden she is changing, then there is abso. nothing wrong with you. It's her! She maybe looking at you in a different way, as I said. Or maybe she has found that that fooling around stuff, just is the past for her, and that she wants to not fool around as much. There is nothing wrong with you. You need to learn how to take a chance, and take a step foward in life. Grow up (I am saying that in a nice way!). Most people are afraid to move on in life, and hun, your friend is moving on.
2007-02-03 01:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those days before were innocent and fun. She sounds like she is now interested in you in a different way. You sound like you are confused because you are not sure if you like her back.
Theres nothing wrong with you. Its human nature to question changes in someones nature and psychology like this. Work out if you like her/ want her. It may be hard as she is clouding things by being over-nice, but it sounds like she has matured is what has happened but is not aware she is taking it too far with you. See past that if you like her. Be nice to her or turn her off in some way to test her it might bring her niceness level back to comfortable and make her seem more of a challenge again.
If you don't like her, say something like "Its so nice to have you as a friend, I can ask you anything, like what do you think Becky thinks of me". She will stop being so nice after that and will back up at least initially and you haven't hurt her feelings as much as saying "I'm not into you" when the question hasn't even been asked
Good luck
2007-02-03 09:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. She's a completely different person isn't she? Nothing's wrong with you. The thing is, she noticed that you felt that you were just friends. She started acting nice because she wants to be more than that. Ask her out, then she'll probably start teasing you some more. I hope that helps. Good Luck!
2007-02-03 09:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by Blake N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong withcha!She likes you she may even ask u out soon chill out and calm down that happened 2 me only I am a girl and it was a boy!! and it didn't happen long ago it actually happened last WEEK!!!!! and if u wanna be friends my yahoo ID is katie_mc_200 don't mean 2 freak u out wth the do u want 2 be friends thing u don't have 2 it just an option!!!!!!
2007-02-03 09:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by needfriendsbadly!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think whats wrong is that you feel uncomfortable with the new way shes paying attention to you. It also could possiably that subconsiously you happen to have a crush on her. Either way, it would be a good idea to try and talk to her like you used to. It might take some time, but in the end its worth it.
2007-02-03 10:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by Chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age old saying comes to mind here: Good Girls Finish Last. Many times when their is a friendship between a guy and a girl it can seem to be more to one of you. Girls tend to do this more so than guys. If you think that is what is happening for the sake of your friendship tell her that you do not want to ruin your friendship with a romance. It might hurt her and embarrass her a little, but if you do this discreetly and gently she will appreciate it before she is completely in love with you.
2007-02-03 09:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by tryin4freedom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have cold feet. When things were light and friendly you were ok with that, now she is sending signals, and you don't no how to handle it. The question is, do you like her enough for a relationship? If the answer is yes, then go with the flow. Why not allow yourself to be loved. Maybe you are too immature for a relationship at this time of your life. It is up to you.
2007-02-03 09:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. You are just going through a stage where you don't know what's going on and maybe the thing is, she might like you or like someone else. Talk to her and find out what's going on.
2007-02-03 09:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel guilty about something?
That would explain the fact that you described her as being "too nice." Especially considering the fact that there is no such thing as too nice.
2007-02-03 09:27:25 · answer #9 · answered by Basiate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a shortage of confidence with your self.. shes interested in you,, just be your self... the guy that talks to all his other friends. just be the same s that guy..hold your head up high and be yourself...nothing realy wrong with you.. quit beating yourself up
2007-02-03 09:27:59 · answer #10 · answered by road runner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋