My bf and I are now ocean apart. He's back in the States now and then few months later he visited just for 2 weeks because of work demands. I noticed during those few days that it wasnt the same as before. We still keep constant communication but I always feel that maybe this relationship wouldn't last after all. I cannot also trust him because many people say that some men are unfaithful. would you trust him/her despite distnace? I am so confused.
2007-02-03 01:22:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he hasn't given you reason to mistrust him, why wouldn't you trust him? The key word is SOME! Yes, some men are cheaters, but there are also alot out there that wouldn't! If you have the later, hang on to him!
2007-02-03 01:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the question to you is. Has he ever giving you a reason not to trust him before? And if that answer is no then why would you start not trusting him now. He probably is just really busy with work. If he seemed different maybe he had things on his mind. That's where you come in and ask him if there is something wrong. If he needs to talk or something. If you are that worried about your relationship with him maybe you should ask him straight up if everything is alright between you to. Maybe he just needs to have someone to talk to. Some times I get like that and my fiance thinks the same as you when really all I want to do is talk about things that are bothering me. Most of the time it has nothing to do with our relationship. Good Luck. Oh and not all men cheat.
2007-02-03 01:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Despite the distance, you should trust him/her until you have obvious reason not to.
Long distant relationship are hard, due to being alone so much. But I have seen couples manage a good standing and even get married eventually. Its a lot of special efforts on both your part.
He may of been distracted, this last visit due to the fact that this was about business and not a personal trip.
Believe, if you want this to work out between the two of you. Have faith! You will get further being optimistic, than being paranoid. :)
2007-02-03 01:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant actully consider it as an end becoz there may b many reasons for it maybe hes really very busy or hes in some kind of tension just talk to him straight forward about this matter and then only take any kind of decision"its said if u r far apart from the person u luv ur relationship becomes more strong becoz ur easily able to feel his absence and go more close to the person.
2007-02-03 01:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by mini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First dont listen to what people say.Follow ur your heart,but the only way a long distance relateship can work is onlt if ur have trust.If u feel in your heart 110% that he is cheat on u then u know what u have to do.
2007-02-03 01:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by Cherelle M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we are just the same but one thing I beleive is he loves me and so I am. Who knows what's gonna happen in the future? We can plan but I wouldn't let the future to worry me. I face life one day at a time!
2007-02-03 01:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if me..i think i am going through the same..just that he is not that far away..but we dont meet up very often..plus he is working and does not seem to bother much anymore..its hard to trust..though there is no reason not to..but its hard..i was wondering the same...haha..
2007-02-03 01:36:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships are hard to maintain. if he has given you some indication that he's not faithful, then talk to him. if not, then trust him until he proves otherwise.
2007-02-03 01:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i trust him because he will never tell me a lie.
2007-02-03 01:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance relationships never work-it's hard to trust someone you dont ever see.
2007-02-03 01:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by Nolegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋