I just can't help it! Why? I don't want to have sex but i can like feel it..and i keep thinking about love, cuddling and kissing. It makes me more eger to get a boyfriend now.
I am also liking this guy who is a few years older than me..around 2-3 and he lives hours away from me. We've never seen each other irl but only on webcam. What canI do to get over all of this!?
2007-02-03 00:10:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And also, I can't talk to my parents about this. Mainly because my dad is over-seas and my mum just doesnt get me...
You see, I am being sorta abused..got hit by a violing bow few years back and kicked and punched..but lets forget that. I'm trying to contact a counceller online anyway.
I think its the lack of love from my mum?
Because when dad visits, he hugs me and kisses me.
When i tell dad what mum did to me, he only tells mum that i told him..
HELP!
2007-02-03 00:22:33 · update #1
first, it is normal to start to like people at a young age. there is nothing wrong with just liking them. but after that is where the line must be drawn. love and sex are two things that must wait until you are ready for it. i know you may think that you are ready, but honestly, you are not ready. you dont want to find out how hard it is to think you are in love with someone and they destroy your heart. it has happened to me and it doesnt feel good at all. dont let this destroy the feelings of liking someone. sex should be avoided at all costs. i know that guys will say, "if you love me, you will have sex with me". that line is played out and guys like that only want to take away your virginity and leave you. also, you do not want to be pregnant at such a young age. there is no way that you will be able to pay for it, or take care of it. you are only a child and you shouldnt be raising a child. you should be living the life of a kid, which you are. the last thing is diseases. i know that this one is the one people often overlook. people think it wont happen to them because they are too young or they have done it before. dont let this get in your head. it will really hurt you in the long run. you dont want to have sex now, get a disease, and never have sex again do you? you dont want to have to live for the rest of your life with a disease with no cure.
all i can say is be a kid. live the life that you should live. dont let anyone change you. be strong and have respect for yourself. when you are older, you will remember this and be thankful that you stayed strong.
2007-02-03 00:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with thinking about it, but you are to young to act on it. And a boy a couple years older and only on web cam? That is a no where situation. Find a guy in your school, and at your age, just be friends. Your still to young to date per say, but, you and a group of friends can all go to the movies together,with a parent, and hang out at your house together (but not behind closed doors). Take your time becoming sexually active, once you cross the line, you can never go back and you think you have pressure now, you cannot imagine what feeling will go through your mind afterwords.
2007-02-03 00:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi! I think I might be able to help you with your question because i'm roughly around your age but a few years older. I'm 15 and trust me I know how you feel about love and sex and thats normal its just hormones rushing around in your body thats all. But dont rush into it wait till your older and truely in love. Trust me I know because my 1st b/f I had I thought I was in love with and in the end he ended up breaking my heart. Now i'm going out with one of my greatest friends that i've known for 3 years. Do you have any guy friends? who knows they could be your next prince charming! But back to the sex thing i'm just saying dont do it I have many friends who have and you will now believe how many of them regret it at such a young age and now they wish they could take it back. Virginity is precious! Its something you have and is yours to keep but once you cross the line you could never get it back so be wise with it. And sweetie you shouldn't talk to older guys on a web cam or at all they could track you down and it wouldn't be good from there. Oh and the whole situation with your mom i'm sorry to hear that maybe you should talk to a close older female or even a male if you feel comfortable about it and see if they can help you in any way. Live,Laugh,Love and remember be wise!
2007-02-03 00:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones in our system drive all of us to want to be physical with members of the opposite sex (usually). The trick is to make sure that your physical state matches your emotional state. Make sure you don't enter into a relationship until you are ready to handle the emotions. And also make sure you pick someone that loves you as much as you love yourself!
2007-02-03 00:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by cunnifungus 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as your only "thinking " about it honey, it's O.K. and healthy. Maybe you should talk to your mom, a older sister, a aunt or teacher. They could give you some information before you get the wrong information.
2007-02-03 00:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
find something to do to occupy your time.. if you have too much time on your hands.. all your gonna do is think about sex. your a young girl and you have plenty of time for that. don't rush it.. remember guys will tell you anything just to get between your legs so be careful.. take it easy!!
2007-02-03 00:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Blake 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
12 years is not age of doing all these things. Don't spoil u r child hood. Keep this for forth coming age otherwise u will not enjoy it properly.
2007-02-03 00:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by dipak 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get a life u way to young to be playing with something like sex stick to barbies
2007-02-03 00:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by GEORGE N 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
oh puberty! it's all those hormones racing around. just keep yourself occupied in other activities and with time with friends. don't let your new curiosity cause you grief by acting on it.
but, just know that your feelings are perfectly normal!
2007-02-03 00:17:19 · answer #9 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is normal for kids your age, just do not have sex.
2007-02-03 00:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by Pauly W 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋