My bf is back in the US. We still keep constant communication but I feel so insecure. We both knew that I have to sort out my previous marriage in order for us to get marry but I feel hopeless because it wil take some time to get it done. apart from he doesn't really talk with me about our future recently. He was a bit shifty. That's why I feel so insecure and suspecting that maybe he doesn't wanna be with me anymore. Should I just go with the flow. I really love him, he is my true love... Help???
2007-02-02 23:30:54 · 8 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before even thinking about your bf, you need to really spend some time thinking about yourself. You're about to end one marriage, and jump right into another. You say he's your 'true love'. How do you know? Didn't you ever feel that way about your soon to be ex? I don't know your situation personally, but your post reminds me of so many women I know that are just scared to be alone, so they go from one relationship to another looking for something that they can only find in themselves. If you want a successful relationship and marriage, you need to find yourself first. Be strong on your own before you bind yourself to any man. Otherwise he's going to be so worn out being strong for the both of you that when stuff really gets hard (and it always does) he just wont have the strength left to make it through the tough times, and neither will you. Good luck.
2007-02-02 23:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Nev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your suspicions may be right. You really don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you. It wouln't be your ideal situation. Just go with the flow and if things don't change, ask him to be honest with you. What could it hurt?
2007-02-02 23:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by Cybil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all long distance relationship don't work--but then if u guys are really meant for each other long distance doesn't matter...but u just have to make sure and talk to him ---communication and comprise and trust is the key for the relationship......
2007-02-02 23:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by pinay princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might still be adjusting to having you gone. You seem closer and more "in love" when you can see each other. But if it's true love, distance doesn't matter...
2007-02-02 23:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by peliglad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I know the feeling cause my gf and I also have distance between us. I will feel better when we no longer have an ocean seperating us.
2007-02-02 23:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Adam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be he is acting to love u or may be he is in a busi mood so plz dont be upset.u can ask him the question also.
Best of luck
2007-02-02 23:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ritu of winx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let your thoughts get the better of you.
Trust him with your heart and he'd do the same.
2007-02-02 23:48:58 · answer #7 · answered by xiaopup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel guilty and now your taking it out on him, terrible
2007-02-02 23:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋