1 guy told me dat he never had a lover, but he has been wit his gf for like a year and he loves her, so is she a lover?
btw he told me this wen we were in bed 2gether? is dat a hint? whats a lover anyway?
2007-02-02 23:13:31 · 16 answers · asked by babycake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW. he broke up wit his gf, now he is sort of with me. like we kiss n he says he likes me etc. a few years ago i broke his heart lol, so we have a history.
2007-02-02 23:44:18 · update #1
in my country - lover is only bed... nothing to do with feelings... if we talk about singles... or if one of them married - true love can be involved..
2007-02-02 23:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His ex might be a lover in the sense that he may have emotional attachment to her, but lover means a partner that you are in love with and that you have sex with, and generally that you are not married to, but could be a spouse.
Usually by the time people are in college they meet someone they are attracted to, become friends, fall in love with each other, and because they are adults, or older teens, they take the new partner to be their lover. To be lovers you have true love that is expressed through making love.
a dude with another girl probably wants to get into your panties and he isn't serious about being your lover. A lover will make you know in your soul that he loves you before having sex with him can ever make you his lover.
2007-02-03 07:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by answerblaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought it went like this thump thump thumping of the heart and being with the one person. But the way you phrased the question I see the point a g/f & a lover you take to bed!
2007-02-03 07:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can use the dictionary to find it
–noun 1. a person who is in love with another.
2. a person who has a sexual or romantic relationship with another.
3. a person with whom one conducts an extramarital sexual affair.
4. a person who has a strong enjoyment or liking for something, as specified: a lover of music.
5. a person who loves, esp. a person who has or shows a warm and general affectionate regard for others: a lover of mankind.
2007-02-03 07:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by hepette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, I think this guy has told you the bitter truth. Despite the fact that he's sleeping with both of you, he doesn't consider you as his lover. If he does it fine on bed, then, enjoy it while it lasts (lol). Cheers!
2007-02-03 07:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lover is someone you have just to have sex with. A girlfriend/boyfriend is someone you form a relationship with.
There for, you are his lover. He does not have feelings for you.
2007-02-03 07:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetest sin <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lover is a person who another is having an affair with.
2007-02-03 07:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lizzard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lover mean he or she will not disturb their lovers. their mind always for the lover. sex is not an issue with them
2007-02-03 07:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real lover is Adam -you know him? the lover is not himself , so love is equal to selflessness.
i'm the one
2007-02-03 07:32:45 · answer #9 · answered by hkrhgv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's some one who builds houses
2007-02-03 07:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋