My self and gf caught while we are spending a good session together. My aunt pushed open my door when we were on the floor, my gf on her back and I was just making my climax. (spill on her tummy). After this incedent, gf never show up when I tried to meet. She says she wanted to break up since that was most embarassing. I dont know what to do
2007-02-02 22:38:50 · 16 answers · asked by shaun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dont have to do anything about it, other than tell you gf that obviously you are embarassed too about what happened, and feel sorry about it, it wasnt your fault, right ?
Your gf is so silly, while it was foolish of both of you not to lock the door, or even think of what you are doing, she finally got a reason to get rid of you (that is, if she really wanted to)...give her time, let her get over this, and probably you could take it from there..
good luck
2007-02-02 23:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question shouldn't be why was it so embarrassing, but why your girlfriend would want to break up with you because of it. How old are you and your girlfriend ? The less mature she is the more vulnerable she will be to such thinking. It wasn't like you did anything wrong. It was bad luck. Now she is going to use an unfortunate occurrence that you had no control over to end the relationship ? You might have to let her go, it sounds like she as some growing up to do.
2007-02-03 06:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Count Acumen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a bit embarrased as your aunt saw her. Give some time to her and do not pester her much. I think she is not mature enough to tackle the situation. Respect her feelings. Try speaking to her once a daily and convince her that what has happened is past and bothof you should move forward. I think this will be helpful.
2007-02-03 06:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's embarassing because it's not respectable behavior. You go home to your own place to get physical, not someone else's home. If you are still living at home you probably shouldn't be doing that, and the fact that you disrespected that girl and your aunt now knows she's not a lady, she shouldn't come back. Both of you should be ashamed of yourselves, acting like idiots! Get those hormones in check and be a respectable man! Little boys, ugh!
2007-02-03 06:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Next time make sure the door is locked. She probably feels violated that someone saw her in that position when she least expected it.
My now ex wife was a bit mad at me when i caught her having sex with her son and his friend. People just don't like being surprized in situations like that LOL.
2007-02-03 06:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you were getting ram-rodded by some idiot who doesn't know how to lock doors aunts house, and she walked in on you as he was cumming on your stomach, then maybe you would understand.
2007-02-03 06:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was it the first time u were having sex dude??u shud LOCK the door atleast........
give her little time.. then try to make up say sorry to her.. she is upset and has a reason for it..show ur love to her..she will be back
ask ur aunt to knock on the door before entering..I mean wat the hell !!!!
2007-02-03 06:48:54 · answer #7 · answered by iamurcolour 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it could have been worse. You could have spun around when she opened the door and c.um all over your aunt.
2007-02-03 10:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by Oliver T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal up with the situation. it's totally natural for your gf to feel embarrassed. that was a private moment of yours.
2007-02-03 06:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by tttpsunshine 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's at your friend's house now, because his door has locks.
2007-02-03 06:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋