my girlfriend and i broke up and said 'lets just be friends'.we were suppose to go out the fallowing week,the week before my birthday, but we didnt.so i left her a massage the week of my birthday about going out, but she never replied...she didn't even call me on my birthday.and i snapped and got really mad,and left her a angry massages. blah blah blah.....
i wanna know why she didnt call me?
and should i gotten mad over this?
we broke up because we didnt see each other a lot...so i'm like why couln't she call me, like she said she would.I'm asking because i'm a virgin and dont know a lot about dating
2007-02-02 22:20:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my ex sad the massages i left her was crazy....and the one of the reason we dont talk any more.
2007-02-02 22:21:39 · update #1
my ex said the massages i left her was crazy....and thats one of the reason we dont talk any more.
2007-02-02 22:22:30 · update #2
When women say, "Let's just be friends." they are lying. That's is the infamous line all women use when they want to get rid of a man.
2007-02-02 22:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Let just be friends" may be a way for her to tell you that she is not in love with you any more.
I can understand why you got mad. Your bithday is something she should have remembered.
When I do get mad, I try to figure if something else happens. E.g. she had problems with her family, or she was ill. The message you left shouldn't have been so mad. She might got scared. But you did, and this can't change. If you want to make things... better I suggest you to leave her a message telling her sorry, that being friends isn't easy too, and wish her having a good time. Calm. This story seems to have been to an end...be the one who ends it beautiful. Not as her, by not calling you to wish happy birthday...
2007-02-03 06:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by Marieta C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over! She's making that very obvious. She could have called for your birthday but then again, she may have thought you'd take it the wrong way and make more out of it than her just being thoughtful. Move on. Continue meeting other single ladies, remain respectable and respect others. Don't continue to bother this exgirlfriend. Keep things civil so that if you do run into her, it's okay for both of you and nobody's uncomfortable. You'll meet many more ladies that will have an interest in you. Carry on! Oh, and Happy Birthday to you!
2007-02-03 06:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On the news you always here about how guys stalk their girlfriends and kidnaps them and their children and go across state lines on one last desperate closure seeking moment. l always wanted to know what kind of guy does that kind of thing. Now you have provided me a look into that desperate mind set. Thank you for shedding light for all the people to see the warning signs of a deranged person. ladies stay away from guys like this. Stick with the ones like me who only really want to hang around for about two weeks
2007-02-03 06:37:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Big 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well by your typing, what you text her, and what she got may have been a lot different. Oh by the way when a women says lets be friends, most of the time she means she doesnt want to talk to you ever again but she doesnt want you to hate her.
2007-02-03 06:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the right to be upset if you said you'd remain friends... although, in reality you can't just break up one day and be just friends the next... anyway, you need to move on... there are a lot more fish in the sea and you need to stop dueling over the past...
don't feel bad for the angry message, she deserved it...
2007-02-03 06:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by Shelley S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have been to eager and too needy. Chalk this up to experience and move on.
2007-02-03 06:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to break to ya buddy but shes with me now
2007-02-03 06:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by G WeeziE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with enjoyrsel
2007-02-03 06:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by holly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be better on your next birthday.
2007-02-03 06:25:21 · answer #10 · answered by teen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋