he just told me he's falling out of it...but i couldn't say anything or do anything...Because one way or another i know that the new "SHE" has all the cards playing with her. I don't even kow what i am in his life right now...I really don't know if i hould fight for him or let him go, gamble the only card that i have versus someone i can never compare to...
2007-02-02 22:13:40 · 7 answers · asked by Kristine U 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, but is hard to make it works, if not impossible.
2007-02-02 22:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's falling out of love - i'd say whether this was long-distance or not, it unfortunately wasn't meant to be. You want someone who wants to be with you no-matter-what. Sometimes the lines get fuzzy when you have a long-distance relationship because the expectations are so high, but the intimacy (not physical, but sharing with the day-to-day of seeing each other) wanes. If he's picking someone else - then he did you a tremendous favor. You deserve better than that girlfriend!! Just know that no one compares to you. You're special! There's someone out there who wants just you. God Bless!:)
2007-02-02 22:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by j b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...... the end of any relationship is alway's hard,.. and alway's sad and difficult..... If the distance was close, in this case there'd be a slim chance...... But with it being long distance, combined with his feeling's on the matter, i'd say it would be best for both party's to call it a day..... Take some time out for a while,... to allow your heartache to pass, then after that, consider a new replacement...
2007-02-02 22:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry you have to go through that. But if he doesn't want to be with you its going to be hard to work things out. If i were you I would just let it go. If it is meant to be then it will be. Just give it time and see what happens. If there is a new girl then he may realize what he lost when with her. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-02-02 22:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by MB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go and find someone closer to you, long distance relationships barely work out..
2007-02-02 22:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight for him? That's just plain stupid. (And I'm a guy)
If he has chosen someone else over you than it's game over, sweetheart. Time to move on. You can't MAKE someone care about you. So get over it and find someone who really wants you.
2007-02-02 22:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by opjames 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure of the question, if you want him, sounds like you need to move, other wise let it go.
2007-02-02 22:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋