I'd like to know now, because i have said i like her once, but she just seemed shocked and said 'really?'. I text her quite often, and chat on the internet like every other day. a few weeks back, we were texting and she was saying things like, "Oh u know how to make a girl feel wanted" and stuff. i find talkin to her in person real hard, and maybe this is putting her off. it seems when she texts or chats on the internet that she's flirting, but when we talk in person we hardly speak :/ any help apreciated. thanks
2007-02-02 22:08:17 · 21 answers · asked by MR S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she does like you and like everyone else has said she is shy.
you have to remember it is so much easier to talk through a PC or a phone. Take her out to a place that you both enjoy that way you will find stuff to talk about. This is a general problem these days as you talk way to much through mechanical and conversations like that tend to get heated very quickly which makes it almost embarrassing when you see them next.
Try taking her out on a date and all the best of luck x
2007-02-02 22:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be a little shy and by having the space she feels a little more comfortable. I have learned to just ask if you want to know. Why guess if it is not a game.
Life is really too short to lose time over some answer you can get directly from the person.
Some people have low self esteem and they can not believe that the person loves or care about hem and that can be a life long time of assuring and reassuring.
Do not get caught up in that nonsense. Just ask her if she likes you and want to make a go of it because that is how you feel about her.
2007-02-03 06:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both sound shy, so you should try not to be and just ask her if she likes you. im not sure if she likes you though because you only talk online and its not like your positive if shes flirting, she could just be being nice or it is her flirting, its hard to tell over the internet. so you have to talk in person and make sure you talk, so you can definetly tell if shes flirting. good luck!
2007-02-03 06:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MR S? well for a start you could try being a little more relaxed !! The best thing to overcome your shyness, initially, is to continue texting and meeting on IM. It does work really. There's no rush is there? Sounds like she is as shy as you, so if you rush things you may drive her away.
2007-02-03 06:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by allseeingdi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, she is somehow interested in your talks but not fully overwhelmed by the idea itself ! Try to lessen your addiction and time will prove whether she is fond of you same level as you are or not.
Best of luck.
2007-02-03 06:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's just shy. Try telling her what you feel through the internet.
2007-02-03 06:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by teen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Possibly, ask her. If you dont you wont find out and even worse you could Miss out. She might find someone else. Then you would have wished you had found out.
2007-02-03 06:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you hould go for it, don't EVER expect a girl to make the first move, unless she 's so so not shy.
2007-02-03 06:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by moulin.rouge 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's easier to talk to someone by text or PC. you can speak your mind withough worrying about what response it will get. You need to try and talk to people face to face though. maybe you're young and lack confidence, don't worry it will come.
2007-02-03 06:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by susan h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seems as though she likes u but you'll only really know if u ask her out on a date for real...then u can go from there....
2007-02-03 06:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by flower 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋