How Fast is too Fast ?

Question

Went out with a girl for the first time last sunday (although we already knew each other) and have seen her 3 more times this week already, really like her and can't stop thinking about her pretty sure she feels the same but how fast is too fast don't want the scare her off by jumping in too quickly (but havent felt like this for someone for years)?

Answer 1

You're in that first flush of love phase and it feels great - enjoy it, for it won't last for ever! Having said that, this relationship could well stand the test of time IF you slow down - seeing each other this often can quickly lead to burn-out as you both begin to neglect other areas - socialising with family and friends, doing the laundry and generally taking care of yourself! Next thing, you will be too tired to meet and when you do, there might be just the tiniest bit of resentment creeping in ...

Twice a week is fine and maybe a call or a text on a daily basis though don't allow even that to become too much of a routine!

If it is right, it will find its own level, so don't worry about it too much.

Answer 2

Seeing a girl 4 times in the first week is a wee bit too fast already-in the first stages of a relationship you need a little time to miss eah other in between dates otherwise the initial spark will just fizzle out & you may become bored with each other.Slow down!!

Answer 3

Seems to me that you are infatuated with her. Moving too fast will cause a wreck. It is like this. back when I was younger in the Muscle Car Era, I loved the Pontiac GTO. It was a beautiful automobile and a powerhouse also. The GTO stood for: *after 130 mph, God Takes Over* If you move too fast and she does the same, you are getting into something without thinking and there is sure to be trouble ahead. IF you like one another, take your time until it blooms into love, and then sit down and talk. You have to know one anothers likes and dislikes, and so forth. Hope this helps. Its nothing bad you are feeling, you are just being hasty.

Answer 4

Hey, if you can close the deal the first night that's great. Never be afraid to ask for the panties. The longer you wait the more economically disastrous it will become. movie=$30, dinner=50-70,drinks=30-40, a room= 90-200, after 2 or 3 months of that, it simply becomes more economical to go to your favorite strip club, and proposition the finest dancer for an evening of wild , uninhibited fornication.

Answer 5

I don't think there's a time limit on feelings, sometimes you can feel close to someone you've just met, other times it can take months, or never. The problem is finding out if they feel the same and that may take time, so slow down unitl you know

Answer 6

It's too fast when you start sleeping with each other. That's when you know. Wait six months before doing that. At least six months.

Answer 7

i think what you guys ve is love at sight.it does happen. if you really like the babe as you claim, i will advice you to follow your mind and let love puzzle fixed it self. this is a way of saying you don't ve to rush things.you can learn a lot in the process of building your love life with her. you may also create unforgettable love experience in the process. so take it cool.connect.interact.experience and love

Answer 8

haha wow maximum exciting question I have ever study. initially, sit back. its no longer the end of the international the following. basically tell him, i'm no longer particular if i like you or no longer. perchance try putting out and kissing again and be conscious the way you experience. tell him you pick to hangout yet there is no guarantees on something.

Answer 9

I don't think there is anything wrong with seeing each other often, if you ask her to go out and she accepts then I think its obvious she likes you as much as you like her.As you said you both knew each other before, go for it.

Answer 10

Four dates in one week is definitely too fast.