My ex b/f of 5 years broke up with me last year after 6months of cutting off communication (his choice) I was finally starting to get along without him, all of a sudden he calls crying and pleading that he still loves me/thinks of me, he said he would call the next day 2 days later I tracked him down, and just as I thought "he acted as it never happend, he was drunk when he had called kissing my butt" but I ask you.... why would you do that to someone? why would you play head games like that? why did he have to break my heart again?
2007-02-02 21:17:16 · 13 answers · asked by wildfl0wer66 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He must be taking advantage of your kindness and compassion. Most guys are like this most men aren't. Most guys are insecure with who they are and what they are. Most women are far more mature than guys....again I emphasize on " guys" most men are not like this. It sounds like on his sober days he, along with many guys are always looking for someone better than who they have. On his drunk days they realize what they have and what they want. My suggestion to you is run, do not waste your time anymore, even though it was five years, think of it as five years of growing, five years of seeing what you don't want. You deserve better and there are plenty of "MEN" out there who are waiting for someone like you!
2007-02-02 21:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer is quite obvious; he was drunk. The only reason he would do that is to show you how well off you are without him. If you were starting to get along without him then continue to do so. If you are seriously thinking about getting back together then think again. This guy has some problems of which you would be better off without. His drinking, calling you on the spur and putting on the phony act is nothing you need to complicate your life with. He broke your heart once so no there is need to let him do it to you again.
2007-02-03 05:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he didn't break your heart again?? that one was all you.. you allowed that to happen. you fell into something that was long gone and him calling you made you cling back on to something that is nothing. do yourself a favor and don't have no type of contact with him cause it seems as long as he has that contact your always going to feel hurt.. let him go.. he's gone. he cut you off, do the same. make him see that he hurt you cause i don't think he has realized that yet. stop playing the victim. keep your head up.. he's not the only guy out there.. get over it!!
2007-02-03 08:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand you fren. But dont think about it much. Just leave it and try to forget. I know its hard to forget a 5 years relationship... but we cant do anything except forgetting and starting a new life. I pray the god for you. You will get a good future. Dont worry. Try to forget the past. All the best.
2007-02-03 05:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by Nenet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let his sorry *** back in, just keep on without him, you'll be better off. He's just realizing what he lost, and letting it out when he's drunk, other wise he would be too stubborn to let you know, but his pathetic tears and attempt is no reason to let him back in, move and and find someone who deserves you
2007-02-03 05:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by Wsdm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lonely. Part of him misses you. That part was able to get to the phone when he was drunk. When he sobered up, that part was over powered. He's not playing games. He's just conficted.
Women buy things and then return them all the time. Men get drunk and make phone calls.
2007-02-03 05:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by cato___ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My suspicions are that he was with another girl and seems like that didn't work out too well for him. Maybe he realized your worth after he left you. I'd suggest not hooking up with him again. But your call...
2007-02-03 05:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by Wiseguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was drunk. And he's an idiot. You're well rid of him. Should have told him right then that it's too late to patch things up.
2007-02-03 05:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel my g/f of six years cheated on me i caught her out on xmas day she also phoned me and said she needed me when i got there the new guy was sitting there.so i ask you what are we doing fusing over these people the dont deserve us
2007-02-03 07:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by GEORGE N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has no intentions of being in a sreious relationship with you .and the head games onlt cause stress in your life that you don/t need.don/t let him play with your emotions.
2007-02-03 05:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋