Well it was yesterday when me n my gf was watching a movie in theatre. Then Suddenly we started kissing each other n then I started touching her in her secret places. My gf then told me to stop n I did stop there but we continued kissing. Then the movie got over n we came out of the theatre. And after that I experienced changes in her behaviour. A regreted for that act to her n I meant it too. Now too still feeling guilty for that act. But by her behaviour its seems like she wanna depart from me now. Plz can u help me understanding this situation. I dont know what to do next. I dont wanna miss her. I love her a lot. But her attitude from yesterday is killing me. Plz tell me what should I do next???
2007-02-02 21:08:26 · 19 answers · asked by Demolisher 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well... I asked her sorry many a times n she forgived me but her behaviour is killing me.
Actually its a long distance relation. N I can meet her only once a week. Our next meet was on 14th feb. But she denied that today saying that she's gonna get the examination form on that day so she cant come.
2007-02-02 21:18:20 · update #1
Well ok you did a mistake I wouldn't react as she did.You should explain to her that you liked her very much and tha't why you behaved that way and you didn't want to offense her in any way.If she loves you she'll understand . . afterall you're a guy.
2007-02-02 21:13:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax, and give it a couple days to blow over. If she's still actiing weird in a few days, ask what's wrong. If she says nothing, then accept that, even if you don't believe it. Give her time to work out whatever she's feeling on her own and let her know she can talk to you.
Whatever you do, don't freak out and be all nervous around her. Don't pressure her or ask her twenty questions. Just be calm, be cool, and be her friend.
And, just a word to the wise, if a girl wants you to touch her secret places, she'll let you know. Don't ever assume. It's good manners, and it's safer for both of you.
2007-02-03 05:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by J.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an ***! What in the hell were you thinking of ! Grouping a girl you care for in a movie theater. You were kissing someone you cared about not some floozie!
There is nothing worse and a turn off as that. The only thing Id suggest and I doubt that it works but you do owe her a deep sincere apology. Is to send or take her flowers.
I hope now you know the difference in a young lady now and not some bimbo. Good Luck your gonna need it!
2007-02-03 05:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by lovie12346 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its cute that your so concerned about that response. Her treatment towards you was reasonable. first of all, you touched her privately, in a public place. she could first feel dirty, and second of all did not feel that, your touching her secret places was romantic. In fact she probably thinks your an immature jerk. the next time your around her, keep your hands above the belt, and she'll let you know when shes ready. just read the signs!
oh and don't call her right away and say your sorry. take the time to make up a list of things you want to explain to her, of why you did that, why you regret it, and the things you want to do to make up with her, she'll apprecieate that you put in effort in fixing this problem. running to her and mindlessly saying sorry is just a plain turnoff.. its the effort that counts!
2007-02-03 05:15:39 · answer #4 · answered by Charlie H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably thinks you're just trying to get into her pants. The best thing you could do right now is, well, nothing. Just give her some space and some time to reflect. If she breaks up with you over this, take it as a lesson and move on. It wasn't meant to be.
2007-02-03 05:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by 444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could probably see you completely differently now...just tell her your really sorry for doing it, you weren't thinking. You dont' wanna freak this girl out! Just say that you thought you both were ready for the next step or something......tell her that you won't ever do it again without talking it over with her.
2007-02-03 05:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what you said i can see that you are very sincere with her and your acts was because you loved her..Personally i think that you should talk to her and apologise if necessary and perhaps mention that you do not have bad intentions, touching in private places is secondary but your love for her what you really feel for her is primary...i`m sure if she truely loves you , she`ll understand you dear...go on....
2007-02-03 05:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you feel guilty that you disrespected her, and that you are willing to wait for the next chance until much later. Reassure her that you don't just want to get in her pants. Show her you care about her, and her feelings.
2007-02-03 05:19:38 · answer #8 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though she is just uncomfortable with how far things went and probably worried now that you want more. Just talk to her honestly and tell her that while you are interested in more, you care about her and your relationship enough to wait until she is ready for it. Good luck.
2007-02-03 05:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by Brandie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her properly and ask bout what is wrong...if she did not like wat u did during dat time then pls do respect it and tell her ull wait til she's ready to give in...prove to her dat ur NOT dat type of person who only wants that things...show her how much u really love her n how much u truly care for her...n try to avoid for d meantime that touching thing which u did...den after sumtime, talk to her about it again if she's in d mood...maybe she's not yet ready dat time...
remember dat everything will go on smoothly at d right time & right place...:-)
ciao!
2007-02-03 05:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by an_angel_in_d_sky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋