all stay at home mom's who won't even leave their kids for two seconds with a babysitter are uneducated, controlling or just plain child molesters who aren't capable of getting a real job."
(This is from something that emailed me but (lol) i cannot even write them back because they will not accept mail from anyone on yahoo answers)
2007-02-02 20:11:16 · 21 answers · asked by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Actually the email was sent by someone claiming to be this person's friend but most likely it is the same person.
2007-02-02 20:15:35 · update #1
Right now I am a stay at home mom and I think this person (whoever said it) is ignorant and probably does not even have children. Raising a child IS a "real" job--a full time job with no pay and no breaks, but well worth it. Maybe this person is jealous of us moms. :)
2007-02-02 20:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like this person is the one who is uneducated! LOL!!! I'm sure that you would love to give them a piece of your mind but I'm sure that alot of people already tell them they're an A hole if they really think this way! And, they probably know they are jerks cause if they won't except mail, they must know how many people would tell them they're jerks! I am expecting and the father and I both agree that a parent should be at home with the children, especially in the first few years. Kids are little sponges at this time and who else can teach them your believes and morals better than you! I plan on being with my child as much as possible and I am not paranoid or controling, just want to enjoy my child and I think that parenting is the hardest and most rewarding job out there!!! I hope the person who wrote this, reads this so I can say "You need to rethink your statement and apologize to this person cause you are an idiot!"
2007-02-03 04:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I emailed her that after another person responded to a question she asked. It was copied and pasted from a question where she answered "ALL SOLDIERS ARE MURDERERS."
This woman harasses other people and makes rude statements about everything under the sea.
It was not an attack on her but rebutting the statement. The way I saw it was they were just trying to make her feel as low as she made them feel.
Check out the ENTIRE answer and question:
Question: Do you support the troops?
ButerflyAngels Response: Not really...They are all murderers
The other person's response to that: oh hell no, 'butterflyangel' is no angel and you did not just make a blanket statement that all the troops are 'murderers' did you?! better be glad you weren't near me when you said that. also i have a blanket statement for you " all stay at home mom's who won't even leave their kids for two seconds with a babysitter are uneducated, controlling or just plain child molesters who aren't capable of getting a real job." now how does that feel? huh?
This was not a slam at SAHMs but I feel it was a slam to an unpatriotic, rude, and stereotypical American.
2007-02-03 09:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by .vato. 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think that it's someone talking out of their backside and another reason why there should be a 'report abuse' tag on the emails that we get, because I have had some nasty ones too.
I have never left my daughter with anyone but her father (my fiancé) and I wouldn't consider my self uneducated, controlling OR incapable of getting a real job, and the child molester thing? Well, it's because I don't want to run the risk of leaving my daughter with a child molester that she stays with her parents!
Perhaps that person has had a troubled past and this was his/her interpretation of SAHMs based on personal experience? NOT that I am making excuses for them though!
It is a strange email to get though!
2007-02-03 05:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would treat it the same way I treat any spam --- throw it in the "trash" We see so many such statements on Answers ---people are just trying to get a response or cause an uproar. I would not respond even if you could.
And anyone who thinks being a fulltime mom is not a "real" job, is not living in the real world !!!! I challenge anyone to do it for a week. It is exhausting and it is 24/7.
You never get a vacation day; you can never call off sick;most of the time you can't even use the bathroom in private!
2007-02-03 10:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by Marilyn E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm a working mom and I still do not approve such comments. Its really sad that people say something like that. I would really say that no mom is bad. Every mom loves their children. Be it a SAHM or a working mom. I am working and I love my child and I'm sure those who stay at home also love their children as much as I do. staying at home or working is not a deciding factor. There are many reasons a mother works and its their personal choice. I personally chose to work and I respect those who chose to stay at home with their kids. There's nothing wrong in my opinion in both cases. I also respect working moms because I know how it is to handle work and home together and they are doing a great job (there are exeptions here also) but I am trying my best and I'm happy with the outcome. Thats what matters. Those who choose to stay at home and they feel good about that then they should do that. But if you feel you cannot give the best to your child if you work then in my opinion those ladies should not work. Because the chaild is what comes first. Work and life style comes after that.
2007-02-03 07:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by Shanu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL, that is the funniest thing I have ever heard. Just ignore them, I've had that happen to me too, someone makes a comment then shuts down their email access so you can't reply. Remember when that happens, you should be smiling :):):):):):) because you know YOU'VE WON!!! They know their wrong.
I don't care if I get thumbs down for this, but REAL moms have a strong desire to always be with their children. That means even moms who have to work for one reason or another, who are always thinking about finding a way to be home with their children, or stay at home moms who make sacrifices for their children are the true winners. Anyone who thinks of daycare as a better place for children then a stay at home parent, is flat out wrong! IMO
Props for being a stay at home mom
2007-02-03 04:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by olschoolmom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that is stupid. I'm a stay at home mom and I'm not uneducated, controlling or a child molester. I don't mind leaving my kids with people i know and trust, and I'm not going to feel bad about it. I have to know you for more than a couple of days to leave my kids with you that is my opinion and that is what i choose to do and i make no apologies about it.
2007-02-03 04:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by daddys_girl319 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think stay at home mums are a good thing. Our kids are only At home for such a short time and if you go out to work leave them with a child minder then why have kids in the first place. Most stay at home mums do go out but they don't relay on other people to bring up ther kids for them. The person who wrote this must have something wrong with them.
2007-02-03 04:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by hahahippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a stay at home mum. I graduated high school, i am not controlling and sure as hell are not a molester. I want to raise my children my self so i can watch them grow up and see their first steps and hear their first words. I do not want to pay for someone else to look after my kids while i work as then there is really no point in having children if you dont see them.
2007-02-03 04:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋