im usually always worried about not fitting in at school. im losing my chance with a girl cause i think im not good enough. girls say im cute but i never get with them cause im shy. i feel like im such a loser. please answer :D.
2007-02-02 20:00:23 · 10 answers · asked by Curious John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can ask this question, then you can approach girls and be successful. Girls love it when you are interested in them.
Be yourself. Not every girl will like you and that should not be your goal. its the one that likes you that you persue.
Ask questions that say "Im interested in you"
Ask questions that reflect your desire to get to know her.
Ask questions about her family
Ask about her sister, brother, mom and dad
ask about her pets and her interests in anything.
Be yourself and dont give in to feeling shy. Imagine if the girls said that you were Gay! what would you do then hide?
Talk to your dad he might be relieved and happy to help. Ask him about how he felt when he was your age.
2007-02-02 20:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Krambala 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, this isn't the answer that you wanted to hear but here is is....school (as you know it now) is not the be all end all. So wait until you graduate, move on and get over them. I did exactly that, was mostly ignored at high school but as soon as i hit university I realized that it wasn't me that was the problem, it was all the "I'm into my group" idiots that I went to school with. Life has never been better for me. I have a great job, live in a city miles and miles away from them...they are still there gossiping about people and that makes me laugh.
2007-02-03 04:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by patti duke 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want more confidence, you need to practise talking to women more... and dont fake confidence.... guys that fake confidence will almost always look like they're trying too hard... and further, acting confident IS NOT true confidence because true confidence only comes from SUCCESS.
How can we expect a guy to have any real confidence when he has never kissed a girl before. Women aren't stupid and they will instantly notice when a guy is faking it and that will undoubtedly lower his chances even further.
Just act like being urself and you will automatically project a correct body language that women will feel that you are confident and comfortable of being urself....
2007-02-03 04:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by kabal_wins2001 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy u need some1 2 lift ur confident say 2 ur self I'M NOT A LOSER or I CAN DO THIS these help me all the time give them a try and good luck
2007-02-03 04:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Miranda M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first thing you have to do is like/love yourself,and I ask. why would you not? I had a drop in my confidence at one time in my life. but it didnt take me long to get it back.b/c i know i have to love myself in order for anyone else to love me. Think about it, what is attractive in life. the people who has confidence in themselves. right? Why would you feel like you are a loser? have you did people wrong? have you been bad and done bad things that would make you feel this way? You need to sit down and take a look at yourself. find out who you are on the inside. ask yourself these ?'s and search yourself as to why and what it is about yourself that makes you feel this way.Then if you have answered no to these ?'s and you dont find bad things you have done then you will see you are good. and its that simple. If Your Good. Your Good. start letting it show!!!
2007-02-03 04:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by genaNga 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It starts with self love and worth. The truth is if you didn't think so much about yourself then you wouldn't even know you were shy. Think more about others, look outwardly and not in so much.
2007-02-03 04:05:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first ask some Questions to yourself and be genuine to Answering them.
To whom your are going to propose then first ask your self that you love her or just wanna make her frnd, or your are going to say something just bcz no girl is with you.
if u found yourself that u love that girl, then be strong and confident and tell that girl whatever in your heart but do it gently and with very cool mind. with your eyes in her eyes. but not propose her in your first talk but give your frndship hand to her.
2007-02-03 04:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by atul t 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
aw your not a loser hunny.
make friends with some girls at school.
and then hang out with them and they'll help you to be more confident.
talk more to other girls too.
just get your name out there and let people know who you are.
if you ever need to talk, im here. ;)
yeah we can talk.
you can email me.
or i have aim.
whatever. :)
just respond back to let me know.
um are we guna talk, or what?
how are we going to talk?
2007-02-03 04:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by IDNTGIVASHT 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Imagine that your Brad Pitt but if u can't do that then Ron Jeremy will do.
2007-02-03 04:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself! Don't try what u are not.There must be someone special who will like you, love you what you are.....
2007-02-03 04:59:03 · answer #10 · answered by 2424333 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋