so i'm 17 and will be 18 soon, and i'm wanting to move out because home life really is not so great a lot of the times and i'm always crying. but my parents said since i'm 17 and i'm wanting to leave so badly that i can as long as i have somewhere to go and i do...but should i really take the chance. Because i'll be moving in with my friend and his parents and they said its perfectly fine and i can stay as long as i want, should i do it or should i stay at my house?????
I'm just really confused and dont know what to do...
2007-02-02 20:00:18 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
and one thing i do not like is i am not allowed to get a job, parents wont let me, and they took me out of public skewl to home skewl me but they havent gotten me anything to go off from there...
2007-02-02 20:06:50 · update #1
would it even be a good idea to move in with my long term boyfriend and his brother and sister-n-law??
2007-02-02 20:12:12 · update #2
Hi Dear,
Personally i really understand what your going through...it's very hard to manage living with parents when ur 17 or i should say when ur old enough to take care of yourself and responsible....I know for a fact that we love our parents so much and we would do anything to make them happy but sometimes they just don't understand us.....I think it's good choice to move out, you'd be more responsible, and more focussed on urself and ur carrier, but the only problem i see is that moving in with another parents (ur friend's parents in this case) might not be the right choice...because your moving out of ur parent's house to another parents house....like there will be the same atmosphere...your friend's parents will be around, they will have certain rules maybe, just like ur parents.......I hope you understand what i mean.....
Therefore, I would move out, but i will move in with friends but not with friend's parents...
Hope this helps :) takecare and best of luck :)
2007-02-02 20:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by prettybella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you should defiantly move out!!
If you don't then you will be stuck there forever and miserable
You will have to stay there for a long time!!
SO I would 1 move out!!
2.get a job(even though your mom & Dad say No)
3. go back to school
4. Get your own appertment or House!
5.Go to college
6.yadda yadda you know the rest!
2007-02-03 04:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be true. i dont think you should move out. talk to your parents properly. they love you it's only that they dont know how to show it. and why do you want to get a job when you have somebody to feed you? i dont wanna get a job. im only 15 but i have no choice because my family is having financial problems.if you really want to get a job find ways to persuade your parents. like you want to do something for the family. your friend's parents will find you an irritant after staying at their house for sometimes. after all you're not their child, and you're their daughter's friend it would not be polite to turn you down.if you really move out what will happen to your parents? after nourishing you with everything now you're going to leave them? i advise to think about it over again. every parents love their child. they want to protect you.
2007-02-03 04:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by distordedx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you can stay home and be safe then do it. Do you have a job? I would finish school and work and just try to better my life, while you are at your friends house be helpful, be productive and be thankful. go with your gut feeling. I am sorry that you have to go through this, good luck.
2007-02-03 04:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by monica your new bff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that unhappy you should leave, but make sure you can support yourself. Do you have a job? How long will you friend let you stay there? Maybe family counselling could be of some benefit?
2007-02-03 04:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by serenitynow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really hateing where you live at the moment then move to your friends house and see if you like it there you can always go back to you parents house to live if you miss them that much
2007-02-03 07:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by << T >> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay home..it can't be THAT bad. If you move in with your friend and you get into a squabble, where will you go? Once you leave home, there is only one way to return and that is "with your tail between your legs." Remember, blood is thicker than water.
2007-02-03 04:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im 17 too and my parent wont let me do **** so take the chance while u can ur parents arnt going anywhere. and if u hate home like me then i would leave asap!!!!!!!! but i dont have the chance to cause i will be reported as a runaway so take this opportunity before they change their mind...HURRY RUN!!!!!!!!!!!:)
2007-02-03 04:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by ask me and u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well look ma i have a two story 4 bedroom house and as gods child im willing to help u.....i live in rockyford,colorado and if ur really needin a start just let me know ill help u!!!!!!
just be happy u just been blessed by god and his child
JT
2007-02-03 04:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by JT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋