urgent help needed!!?

Question

ok. so there is this guy who i really like, and likes me back. he is going to ask me out, but i do not know what to tell him, because my mom doesn't even know we are dating. if i told her, she would just give me a lecture on boys and what not.. she would definately not let me have a boyfriend.. since she is thee VERY overprotective type, so she wouldn't let me go anywhere without her/with my friends, unless it was for school/volunteering. (do not suggest making up excuses for school/volunteering, because he is not in any of my classes, and he does not need hours. ) please help!! Thanks!!

Answer 1

well you don't want to start lying to your mother, so i would say, be honest with her. I really be hard but you never know what she may say, and if she says no then don't completely give up hope, she may come around if she realises you really like this guy and he really likes you. you have to start somewhere right?

Answer 2

As a member of the male gender, I can tell you that men's primary goal in life from age of puberty to death is procreation aka sex. Judging from your writing level and that your mother is a factor in you having a relationship, I can tell you that you are not ready for a serious relationship.

If he approaches you, simply tell him "I'm sorry, I like you too, but I'm just not ready for a relationship right now." or some variation of that.

Obey your mother's will. She knows what's best for you. Stay off drugs, keep away from guys until you're in college etc yada yada...

Answer 3

So get your friends to go like to the movies or anywhere and meet him.but your mom may surprise you,esp.if he's a nice guy.

Answer 4

Ask him to come to your house and introduce him to your mom and nature will take care of the rest.