My girlfriend and I have an unsual relationship. Whenever we are out together and I notice another really hot woman, my girlfriend enjoys proving to me that she can get this woman into her bed while I cant. The only problem is she is right and they never let me join in with them. Instead, they make me sit outside but close enough so that if they call I can serve them refreshments. I still have not slept with my girlfriend even though we live together and I do all the housework. I also have half my monthly salary deposited directly into her account. I love her to death but it is agony listening to her moan for hours with another woman behind a closed door. Begging them doesn't help, they only laugh at me more whenever I do, and I do beg them alot. Sometimes if I take them out shopping on my credit card and carry all their purchases she will let me kiss her feet but that is the most I ever seem to get. Is there anything more I can do for her. I would die if we broke up, she knows it too.
2007-02-02 17:33:38 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are whipped and you never got anything to be whipped by.
You make a very good SLAVE
2007-02-02 17:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man! what wrong with you? Do you enjoyed being tortured?
.....by the way, your girlfriend seems to be reaaaallly weird.
Is she a lesbian? Why would she wanna sleep with a woman instead of you? C'mon!
My advise is,.....a guy like you could get a better treatment, if you ask me.You don't deserve to be deserted and be left in agony for all the cash and attention she's getting! Get a life and move on with another Hot girl, know what I mean?!!
2007-02-02 17:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by dun_give_ a_ damn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you wrote this question out of sheer self-pleasure and not because this is truly a problem.
However, I will humor you and suggest that you tell your g/f she is truly a lesbian (since she isn't sleeping with you and only with other girls) and that you are going to go find another dominant gal that can at least let you use your private area on occasion.
I'm sorry, man, but your lady is a lesbian.
2007-02-02 17:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by yomama23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"We teach people how to treat us". Dr. Phil is right, there.
You are teaching her that your needs are meaningless.
This all sounds pretty shallow anyway, frankly. She drags strangers home and jumps right into bed with them while you bring refreshments?
And this is a healthy relationship how?????
Sounds like real intimacy is wholly absent all the way around.
You're better off free to meet someone you can have a genuine love relationship with.
2007-02-02 17:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by Cynthia D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, you can't be serious. Second, if you are serious, you have to come to the realization that she wont change, so if you cant be happy being her slave then get out.
I wasn't very nice to one of my boyfriends, I didn't care for him but he was obsessed with me, so I used it for my advantage. I even called him my wallet, and when I would go shopping without him Id laugh and tell my friends I can't buy anything today, I forgot my wallet. Not as bad your girlfriend, sorry to say but your story reads like bad porn. He always said like you say, would die if we broke up. We broke up, I was tired of using him and feeling guilty about it and guess what he didn't die and is dating someone that is nice to him (at least I hope for his sake).
2007-02-02 17:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by shellsandscripts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real? You do the housework, give her money, and let her cheat on you? She's obviously using you. She doesn't even seem to have any interest in you whatsoever. What could possibly be holding you back from breaking up with her?
2007-02-02 17:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by Connie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So why don't you make a challenge of your own with your girlfriend.To make it even she has a challenge that she can get a HOT woman in her bed, then try something like that.Don't just sit there in the corner serving refreshments, TAKE ACTION!!!!!!!
2007-02-02 17:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by Bria S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not be serious!!! Pat yourself on the back, and tell yourself this out loud... I am being played, and I am allowing it! You are totally her sugar daddy. You either have very low self esteem or you are just out of touch with reality. You need to find yourself a woman that will love and respect you... best of luck to you.
2007-02-02 17:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not there are some men out there who think it's "hot" to watch two women get it on. You may be of the other group of men who doesn't get turned on by watching two women do it in bed.
Let your girlfriend know about this, that may be the solution to your problem. Good luck.
2007-02-02 17:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by daryavaush 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like you would be much better without her. She sounds like she is using your for your money and your willingness to do anything for her. You need to find a woman who will treat you right. The fact that she is sleeping with other woman right in front of your face shows that she has absolutely no intention of being committed to your relationship.
2007-02-02 17:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by its_just_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a joke?!! :O
Have you got any self-esteem at all?
I will spill it out for you: she is a lesbian and she is using you. You are not her boyfriend, you are her maid/slave.
And to get so low as to kiss her feet. Yeah... it is well sad and really pathetic.
You are like a jester, your relationship is a joke.
2007-02-02 17:41:53 · answer #11 · answered by JC 301186 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋