im a sophmore at this school and i really like this girl. I have never had a real conversation with her. I've known her for about 3 years and im to shy to even talk to her. I want to get to know her but i wouldn't know what to say and I don't want to come up to strong. Shes in about two of my classes and it seems i can never talk to her alone because shes always with friends i don't know to. Can someone please help me?
2007-02-02 17:28:58 · 7 answers · asked by Colin B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start talking to her slowly, like if u hear her talking just kinda ease into her conversation [[but not creep-ish]] but if your too shy...I dunno
2007-02-02 17:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by Gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Colin word of advice is to find out which locker she has and drop her a note in her locker. My boyfriend would leave surprise notes in my locker all the time and I thought it was real romantic and in fact that is how I found out he liked me and we hit it off, but didn't stay together cause I found out he cheated on me with other girls and was a father as well. Another thing you could do is surprise her with a rose one day and tell her how you feel about her and see how it goes. Please never rush into a relationship that you know you can't quite commit to and in turn end up hurting the one you love. Just be sure the feelings are mutual and she isn't seeing anyone.
2007-02-02 17:53:23 · answer #2 · answered by chris a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just join in the conversation when she is with her friends but try to catch her alone. Shyness is a big thing to overcome when talking to girls. Just start out with a compliment (i.e. her shirt, piece of jewelry, etc) just trying to start conversation. If you two click then the convo should go pretty smoothly. Maybe ask for her online sn or something and talk to her online. That work up to hanging out with her and her friends out of school.
2007-02-02 17:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you walk into class, say hey ____how's it going? and sit down. Yousee her in the halls, say hey as you walk by, by doing this she will turn to look and be interested to find out who the guy is that wants to talk to her. The gradually have longer conversations, make her laugh, give her complements, but dont come on too strong, take it slow, she will eventually come to you, ♥...luck
2007-02-02 17:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a compliment on her outfit or a piece of jewlry, even if there are people around, or just say Hi so she notices you and mabey she will initiate conversation.
2007-02-02 17:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by seven-11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her about something shes potentially interested in and try to be friends with her friends that way they could always invite you into the conversation
2007-02-02 17:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by Tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her
2007-02-02 17:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋