I'm only 14, and I like a guy with the same age as me, is it ok?
2007-02-02 17:26:03 · 31 answers · asked by blue sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course its ok... but at your age... I'd call it 'crush'...
2007-02-02 17:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by Virus Type V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are not 14. You know that I know. You are a 14 year old girl's mother.
You are a 14 year old girl's mother. You are worried about her. So you put down "I'm only 14, and I like a guy with the same age as me, is it ok?"
What kind of a girl would ask that?
2007-02-02 17:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I feel that at that age you girls don't know the first thing about love and that is why half of the young girls such as yourself wind up pregant because you feel like you have to sleep with a man in order for him to like you and that is so not the case. Sweetie, you should be focusing on school, graduating, playing with your girlfriends, things of that nature cause all boys want is one thing and one thing only and that my dear is sex. Trust me I'm 27 years old and know what I'm talking about and there isn't a path that I haven't took and can honestly say, been there and done that. Please listen to me when I say respect your body and yourself and give it more time. 18 is the proper age to start dating and not at 14.
2007-02-02 17:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by chris a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal for a 14 year old to fall in love. Just remember that this is probably not the person you will spend the rest of your life with. This is the time of your life to meet new people.
2007-02-02 17:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by mowdy1948 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a crush on someone and "falling in love" are two completely diffrent things. It's totally normal to have crushes ( you wouldn't be human if you didn't) but falling in love is to much. You dont want to have to take a relationship at that age so seriously, have fun and be friends. You never need to rush into things.
2007-02-02 17:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Mighty4theLord 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, it's okey. as a friend, a companion. like is different from love. love has a very deep meaning and it will entail a very serious emotion. i believe for a 14 year old girl like you, just enjoy the company of the guy. have fun-clean fun. don't take any of it too seriously yet. it's too early for you. just enjoy being a teen ager.the right time will come for you to fall in love.
2007-02-02 17:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Off course its okay to like somebody your age. But love is a strong word. Dont take it very seriously. You only had a crush on him. Dont mix it up with love. You are too young to fall in "love".
2007-02-02 17:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by pellmell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely ok to feel the way you feel. We can't help our feelings, and they are there to be enjoyed.
Please move cautiously in this relationship, as it is extremely unlikely that you will continue to want to be together for very long. Just learn what you can from each other, be honest and respectful to him and to yourself.
You are at the beginning of life's journey, how much you enjoy it will depend on your own choices.
2007-02-02 17:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mister SuperDuperSmartyPants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to have a puppy love for start. SO you can also understand how actually a relationship is about. Just have your limit and know what is do and don's.
Treasure yourself as there will be better coming along your your way. I believe you know hat I mean. :)
2007-02-02 17:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by VL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess so, it wouldn't hurt to try to fall in love with this guy you like.
I think you are to young to fall in love and get engage with this guy.
I just saying, but you don't have to follow me example of you be too young to fall in love with this guy you like. The choice is yours, make the best of it.
2007-02-02 17:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Rdy2answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah,puppy love....hormones, pheromones, but love is a very strong word..crushes happen at your age, and easily be mistaken fore the L word. take it very slow, don't do something that you might regret later. don't let yourself be pressured into sex, save that for waaaay down the road. I grew up too fast, didn't take time too just be a kid,when I could. now I regret starting things up at your age. be as young as you can while you can. take your time and enjoy it.
2007-02-02 20:11:56 · answer #11 · answered by Auntie M. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋