well i guess i have a problem...and i might even be taking it to serious...well i have a gf(which i'm crazy about..) and she claims that i am her first boyfriend...i believed her till she told me about this other guy that she had met a year or 2 before me and they had a lil "thing" going but it wasnt serious and they didnt consider themselves a couple...well the guy did something stupid or whatever and he decided he was bored of my current gf and went on and found someone else who was more suiting for him, me and him go to the same college...and i usually see him nd it makes me wanna just kick his ... everytime i see him i guess...and what my problem is that i always get this feeling that my current gf isnt over her "ex" and it always gives me a bad feeling inside when i think about it...any suggestions on what i should do? or am i just being paranoid?
2007-02-02 17:25:46 · 7 answers · asked by unforgetable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can see that you really care for this girl and it must be really hard to put up the idea of another man. I was engaged and happily united with my ex. Though life eventually tore us apart for reasons I should not state. We had a similar situation, though it was a bit different.
I was a victum of a crime and tried to keep my fiance away from this truth in order that it would not effect us. But life took it's toll, he eventually found out, through friends. He was disminished and could not even take a look at me. His eye were in pure agony, his love for me so pure, but his mind would not let him forget a single silable. My ex fiance kept fantazing about beating the bloody pulp out of him. But all my fiance aquired was more hate and just went nuts for a while. We eventually broke up....we both still have feelings for each other. But he has another girl now and it's vary difficult situation. He trys to pretend that he is ok, but we both know that we can never be happy without each other.
Trust me if you love this girl with all you heart no matter the situation; you will be calm and try to act as though that man does not exsist. Wheather the situation...life is short and when you love someone you should try your damnest to keep them close. Maybe this guy tore her heart out and step on in a million times, then torched it till ashes. She may still have feelings for him. But I am pretty sure that if she has the courage to start another relashionship then there is really nothing you should worry about. Trust me if she loved him or had feeling so deep she would not be able to call you her boyfriend. Even if she does then she obviously does'nt want anything to do with that man. Other wise she would not be with you.
You may get so infatuated with the sight of hurting that man. But in the end you will still have your feeling of agony. So the best thing to do is hold close to your hunny bunny. Take care of her and let her know that you care about her. Either way you will never be happy without her and every action in your life will become nulified. So then get UP and call your girlfirend!! Right now, let her know how you feel about the relationship. Let her know that whatever happend in the past is is nothing of consiquence in your life; but if she is willing, you will always be there with open arms. Understanding, loving, and kind! It is much better to be loved then never loved @ all.
The world is vary cruel and if your lucky enough to find a person. Then never let go.
2007-02-02 18:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by gutten abend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be being paranoid or it could really be that she hasn't gotten over him. The only way she's going to get over him is with time. Be the best boyfriend you can be. That will show her how wonderful you are and help her forget the other guy sooner.
Good luck. :)
2007-02-02 17:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being paranoid. Stop taking revenge on somebody, it is going to get you deeper into more crap. For your gf, you tell her that, if she wants to stay with you. She has to be honest. She cannot hide anything from you anymore.
2007-02-02 17:36:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i am hoping this is a comic book tale!! no a lady does no longer have a era even as she's pregnant. a lady has a era because the egg change into no longer fertilized and the liner of the uterus is being stripped and that is the position the era comes from
2016-11-02 04:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her about it
if she says she loves you then you're being paranoid
if not then she's got a problem
2007-02-02 17:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by doglover_2003_200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it.
Then get over it and move on.
2007-02-02 17:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely go with "paranoid"
2007-02-02 17:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by brooklynsss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋