my mom is seriously driving me nuts these past months...she freekin gets mad soo easily and grounds me for no reason. i mean every kid has to fight with their siblings. i called my sister stupid and she went crazy took my bag of chlothes i bought today and shes going to return them, she told mei cant do anything with my friend for 2 hole weeks! she always tells me to shut up! im starting to hate her!
what do i do
help please!
2007-02-02 17:25:39 · 7 answers · asked by mell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well the signs not only could be signs of menopause, but also could be signs of pregnancy, or maby she is just tired, why not give her a break see if you can do something for her, help around the house or make things easier on her in general.
2007-02-02 17:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, you DON'T hate your mother and I certainly hope you didn't SAY that to her. When you get older you will feel so bad about even THINKING that thought. Second, if YOU really bought the clothes with YOUR OWN money, how is she going to return them? Think really hard- did you do something MORE than call your sister stupid? What are you saying when she tells you to shut up? If you were smart, you'd go to your sister and apologize for calling her stupid, even if she WAS being stupid. Then apologize to your mom. Then DO NOT ask if now you can see your friend sooner than 2 weeks. It is my guess that if you do this sincerely, your mom will be so impressed she will back off. In the future, remember what you call being "grounded for no reason" is only your opinion and it's your mom's that counts. Also, just bite your tongue and don't call your sister stupid for ANY reason. Every kid does NOT HAVE to fight with their siblings! I am one of 4 girls and we NEVER had a fight- my mom wouldn't allow it! Just do what you have to do to KEEP THE PEACE and mom will have nothing to get angry or ground you for- in HER opinion, the only one that counts until you move into your own place.
2007-02-02 17:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by 8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a teenager this is normal and natural, and speaking as the 'auntie' or 'extra adult female' I see it happen with all moms and daughters.
The best thing you can probably do is look to your own behavior for how you are participating in the conflict. You can't change her, but you can change your own behavior and reactions. What I see happen with girls when they get to a certain age they start to think that they know everything about everything and start treating their moms like idiots, talking back to them, mouthing off and giving attitude. This is a normal part of growing up, and it drives the moms CRAZY - they just get fed up with it. They support the kids, feed them, clean up after them, drive them around, make sure they have what they need to be comfortable and then get treated like crap.
Sorry to be so tough about it - but that's what I see over and over and over.
So...look to your behavior, try to remember everything that your mom has done for you your whole life AND how much longer she's lived and more she's seen than you have - sometimes, most times, mom really does know best. Try to find what you can to respect in what she's doing, and tell her that you appreciate her and love her - not all the time, but when you are thinking of it. I think you'll find that reaching out to her and showing her that you do love and appreciate her in spite of the inevitable conflict of the teenage years will be greatly rewarded.
2007-02-02 17:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 20:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not telling us the whole story here. You did more than just innocently call your sister stupid. Maybe instigated a big fight with her?
What you should do is try to behave yourself. No more fighting. Maybe a nice little "I'm sorry" would help a lot.
2007-02-02 17:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is probably starting menopause. It's like her own body is punishing her and she is losing her mind as well as her looks. Give her as break. Suggest she get a check-up.
2007-02-02 17:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
shes probably in a mood swing. if she does this alot...there can be a problem. try talking with her... bring your cell incase of a 911 emergence
2007-02-02 17:29:32 · answer #7 · answered by K@T 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋