Ok, I'll try to make a rather complex, long story short... I really like this guy, and he's super nice and recently broke up with his girlfriend... About a month afterwards he was asking me who I liked [We're close friends and all] and after like 30 minutes of prodding I told him I liked him, and he told me he liked me back, but he wasn't looking for a relationship soon because of his ex. I can understand that. Two weeks go by and he's I guess trying to be nice to her and holds her hand and I even saw them like.. peck or whatever and it was sad. But then about a week ago I was over at his house and lots of stuff happened but he kissed me. He didn't have to and I was so surprised but he did it. And then him and his ex were in a fight so they weren't talking... But apparently they're friends again and it's all good but I saw them holding hands again and I'm not sure but may have kissed and I'm just so confused.. Does anyone understand all this??
2007-02-02 17:23:10 · 9 answers · asked by brittaboo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I'll try to make a rather complex, long story short... I really like this guy, and he's super nice and recently broke up with his girlfriend... About a month afterwards he was asking me who I liked [We're close friends and all] and after like 30 minutes of prodding I told him I liked him, and he told me he liked me back, but he wasn't looking for a relationship soon because of his ex. I can understand that. Two weeks go by and he's I guess trying to be nice to her and holds her hand and I even saw them like.. peck or whatever and it was sad. But then about a week ago I was over at his house and lots of stuff happened but he kissed me. He didn't have to and I was so surprised but he did it. And then him and his ex were in a fight so they weren't talking... But apparently they're friends again and it's all good but I saw them holding hands again and I'm not sure but may have kissed and I'm just so confused.. Does anyone understand all this?? Oh yea, btw... It was him that broke up
2007-02-02 17:35:22 · update #1
sry i meant to just say that he was the one tht broke up with her, and thts wats so confusing
2007-02-02 17:37:39 · update #2
Completely. Although, he may like you, he's using you as a backup plan. If all else fails w/ his rocky relationship now, he knows that you like him and you're there waiting for him. Would you want him doing this to you if you were in a relationship w/ him, and it became rocky?
2007-02-02 17:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by sorrowlaughed25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a man, but still think I can answer this question. I've been like that guy before actually. I think he's confused himself. He likes you both and doesn't know who to choose. Be careful about your feelings and attachment to him. You should talk to him about this. He still has feelings for her. Maybe he's not sure how the relationship with his ex will turn out. Give him time to make a decision. Make sure it's what he really wants. Stay strong and keep your cool. If he stays close to her like that, then be careful. If it doesn't work out for some reason, you will find a better guy. If he chooses her, you can decide if you want to remain friends in case they break up for good. Stay cautious, but don't give up. If you want him, you can get him. God bless!
2007-02-02 17:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well me being a male I can tell you what's going on.
You see the thing is that the guy you are into still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend.
Even if you were to go out with him more than likely he will be thinking of her while he is with you, and I know you don't want that.
So clearly he is not over her.
The only way you can win him over is if you show him that he doesnt need her when he can have you.
If he continues being like that with his ex then I guess its his loss.
You dont have to go on and work to get him when it should be the other way around.
Well I hope this helps.
2007-02-02 17:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just not sure what he wants either. Maybe you should just back off a little and see if one he notices and two see if it spurs on a conversation of how or what he is feeling. Calm down your right one is out there somewhere. When you stop tryin so hard a lot of times fate will weave a realtionship for you that will amaze you... I know...cuz mine is 19 years strong she came into my life not long after i had kinda given up relationships
2007-02-02 17:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by rj2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope sorry, That is kinda weird how he is acting. If I were to take a shot in the dark I would say that he is most likely more confused than you are so just try to be patient with him. He might like you but he just broke up with his girl and he most likely still has feelings for her. All I can tell you is to give him some space for a while and see where it goes. Good luck!!
2007-02-02 17:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me being busy isn't a sturdy clarification for him no longer to make certain you.. If he cares for you, he will locate time to be with you and under no circumstances only even as he's accessible. Being extra sweet or positive doesnt extremely make up for time no longer spent together.
2016-11-24 20:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sound like he is a player he just might want sex from you. so be careful not to get hurt. You need to meet a guy who is ready to give you all his attention.
2007-02-02 17:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok forget about him. I think he is on some sort of drugs.
2007-02-02 17:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to break it do you, but he is using you as a rebound
2007-02-02 17:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by a leader of some ace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋