I'm in love with a woman, we've broken up 4 times in 6 months.
But she still calls me to check up on me. What should I do ?
If I can't let go of her. It's too painful ...
2007-02-02 16:52:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude she is a huge b@#$h as my mento r would say DTB. get over it sac up and find another chick. its not her its what she gives you in the bed/couch whatever. that is what you are in "love" with.
2007-02-02 16:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by heavyhauldad 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First thing you have to understand is women don't understand what love is so they don't have the ability to love.... if anything they find joy in making people love them and then hurting them... they'll deny it but it's true..... I know what you're going through, a bit, I was with a girl for 3 years, we were supposed to get married and then she just disappears, no goodbye ..NOTHING.... then 3 years later after she had ripped my heart out she contacts me and says she still love me and is coming back...... gets my hopes up then disappears again........... so you're not alone man, join the club !!!!
2007-02-03 01:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you can't let go of her because it's painful, there's a good possibility you guys ended up getting superglue on your skin. Try dipping the affected areas in turpentine. That should help.
2007-02-03 00:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by Iam t 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to move on. If she doesn't love you back (and it doesn't seem that she does, sorry to say) then you really won't have a good relationship. She's just going to keep hurting you if you don't move on and find someone else who does love you.
2007-02-03 00:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kate 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you may be in love with what you wish she were like, or what you wish it was between the two of you. realistically, do you want to be with someone who may not reciprocate with the same feelings? time will let you get over her and eventually you'll be with someone who doesn't cause you doubts
2007-02-03 00:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by treehuggernw 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You cannot make someone love you. Tell her that you have had enough of her games and you are moving on. She is toying with your emotions and it is only a game to her. Move on.
2007-02-03 01:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by LMnandez 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Someday when you get to thinking you'll find out that it's not really worth it. she keeps checking on you for you not to move on. This seems harsh but she is just checking on her boytoy. Just move on it's hard but it's the best way to continue living. One day you'll find out i'm right.
2007-02-03 01:01:41 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Shai 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
time to make a clean break - no calls or anything
in a year or more you may be ok, but time to move on
2007-02-03 00:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mike H 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her. Tell her that things are a little confusing and you just need to "figure it out." Hopefully things will straighten out and you can figure out what it is that you found attractive in her and look for it in someone else.
2007-02-03 01:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by redhed172000 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ask yourself why you keep breaking up. Who is breaking up with who and why. It may hurt you to let go, but it sounds like it's hurting more to hang on.
2007-02-03 00:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by butterflykisses_1897 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋