why is it like this most of the time?

Question

i found myself liking guys that i've caught staring at me!!! like i didnt like him at all at first, but then i would catch him staring at me all the time and i AM POSITIVE that he's staring at me. whenever i look back he would look away. And i would find myself starting to like that guy!! and i has happened so many times now!!! but i still like guys that dont stare at me. I mean the guy that stares at me is not ugly and kinda cute but why???

and i know its a very confusing question bc i just dont know where to start...

I'M A GIRL

well, is "loving the attention" a good thing or bad thing

Answer 1

well being liked is very flattering

and you know that guy or girl would say yes to a relationship
so you kind of think about it
and maybe try to rationalize it
and before you know it
you like him/her

Answer 2

Don't take this the wrong way, but it's the attention these other guys are paying to you. You like that they have an interest in you. You may think you like him, but I really think that it's the attention. My daughter has just found out that a boy that she has always been friends with, but never thought more of him has a crush on her. I asked her what and how she feels about this? She told me that she is flattered that he has a crush on her. But, she's thinking she might kinda like the boy too. Like I told her it's natural to think this way, simply because it's feels great to have someone pine over you, not the other way around, you always wanting others. It's normal, don't worry have fun with it! Your young! Remember you only live once and your life is all about YOU!

Answer 3

come on, you love the attention, don't you? huh, huh?admit it

Answer 4

well your cute and your pretty, why wouldn't they look at you.

Answer 5

you like anyone that likes you...or has any sort of interest in you...