Right now I'm skeptical to real love.Is it actually real?I'm very beautiful but it seems guys talk to me for the wrong reasons?I thought I was in love with my ex but he cheated on me even after saying he loved me first. We were young and had a very long distance relationship but he was one of the few guys that respected me and my body.Everything was great and after I refused to tALK TO HIM WHEN HE CALLED ME after he cheated and asked if we could be friends I said no.After a while i MISSED HIM AND CALLED HIM. wE TALKED GREAT ON THE PHONE and he called me the next weekend but I wasn't available. He never tried again and I refuse to call him. How could he throw two years away?What happend?Did I do anything wrong? Is love real?
2007-02-02 16:48:42 · 5 answers · asked by ~*jAmLoN*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should leave ur ego and reluctance.. call him as soon as possible and tell him that u love him a lot if you really love him even now. i hope he too will talk to you well. All the best.
2007-02-02 16:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After two long years if your boy friend is still loving you, thats a great thing to happen which doesn't happen normally. he has not called you till now and that shows that he is not interested in you now. So forget about the past and be happy. Try to make new friends and you'll sure get nice friends to love and care for you..
2007-02-03 01:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ultimate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes love is real.. and you WILL KNOW when you are in love. i promise. you will not even have to be questioning it like you are. i have been in the same type of situation recently and i know your feeling as to how in the heck can guys just throw that bond you Thought you at at least... i don't understand it either. and NO you did not do anything wrong. it sucks doesn't it that us girls get the sucky end of the deal with the most pain and guys can just move on faster. one characteristic of girls is that they become emotionally attached more easily and faster... and so when it ends they fall harder. it sucks but you need to move on. you are playing games with your heart and it is not fair to you. it is not fair anyways to go back into that relationship when he does not care as much as you obviously do about him. you WILL find that great guy when the time is right. best wishes to you!
2007-02-03 00:56:47 · answer #3 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the sounds of it, you didn't do anything wrong. You deserve someone better, and when you find someone 10 times better than him...then you'll be able to tell if love is real....or not.
2007-02-03 00:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE IS TOUNG TO TOUNG AND THE TOUCHING PART IF YOU WANNA HAVE KIDS.BUT FOR NOW TAKE IT EASY TALK TO HIM GO OUT WITH HIM SHOW HIM THAT YOU APPREACIATE HIM AND THAT YOU LOVE HIM LOTS.THAT IS IF YOU DO.
HOPE I WAS ANY HELP.
KATHERINE C.
2007-02-03 00:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋