What should i do?

Question

A few months ago my ex-boyfriend and i broke up because i could not see myself with someone who had a lot on bagges(problems),yes i did love him.Now im in a new relationship which is going well but since my ex calls me everyday to tell me he love me and sometime we just talk for hours.This makes me want to get back with him.

Answer 1

take some time off from both of them, until you decide what your feelings are for each. Its not fair to your new relationship to be talking to your ex-boyfriend so much. A new relationship needs a chance to grow and this is not posible If you are spending so much time talking to your ex.

Answer 2

Well, you obviously have some feelings left for your ex. Don't you think you were a little tough on him? If he still loves you and calls you often then its up to you to decide whether or not you want to be with him. Either way, if you decide to remain with your current bf then you have to make it clear that you simply want to be friends. If I were you, I would give him another shot and tell your current bf that you need to explore other options before becoming too involved with him. I hope that helps and I also hope that everything works out for the best :)

Answer 3

Remember, you dumped him for a reason. How would you feel if your boyfriend was talking to his ex for hours at a time? You need to decide if you want your boyfriend or ex. If his baggage was too much before it probably still will be. You need to focus on your new relationship and tell your ex to butt out.

Answer 4

The question is: Do you love him enough to stand the problems he carries?

Answer 5

well you gotta decide who you want. it can't be two you know. If you don't want that feeling, just don't talk to him anymore.