I like this guy at school. We have been friends since the 6th grade. Recently I started to like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me. We talk and hang out during classes, but I can't tell. He is a really nice guy, and I really like him. What should I do?
2007-02-02 16:27:42 · 17 answers · asked by Vanna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, I really think you should try to flirt with him. You could also try showing him respect, like say, "I really trust your opinion". Or you could say, "Call me if you ever need to talk", then that lets him know that you care enough to be there for him. Guys really are into a girl who will listen to them and respect them. I REALLY hope everything goes well with you know who!!!
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2007-02-04 07:55:26 · answer #1 · answered by Cheyenne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this same problem. Drop off some subtle hints that make it known you like him more than just a friend. If he's interested, ask him out. You need to tell him how you feel. I know it's easier said than done, but you just have to do it. Most people think that if they reject you, it might be awkward between you, but if you guys were truly friends, then both of you will eventually get through this and move on. I'm still best friends with the guy I liked, and sometimes he jokes about it with me, but he doesn't mean anything by it. I just laugh along with it because now I don't like him anymore, and it seems funny that I used to.
2007-02-03 01:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by soccercutie012693 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a friend to ask him if he has any feelings for you. Make sure the friend just says she is curious. You could also try flirting once in awhile and do some alone time with him. Make sure you don't force yourself on him. You could show that you have a small crush on him so he won't think you're uninterested. You need him to think that you could be more than a friend. And that he would have a chance with you if he wanted one. Remember, guys are clueless, so don't start thinking he hates you suddenly.
2007-02-03 00:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by Selene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on how long you've known him? Cause maybe if you've been friends for so long he might just view you as a friend.
Does he stare at you?
Defends you?
Talks in a more soothing voice than he does to others?
The body language: has his feet pointing towards you.
If yes, then he may like you, though, there's also a good chance that he might just view you as a friend.
But if he talks to you about other girls, how cute they are, then I don't think he likes you, and just view you as a close friend.
2007-02-03 00:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by wordwaves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop some hints and some flirting. If he flirts back he may be interested. Do this for a little bit and if you think he likes you, tell him how you feel. Guys like girls that are open about their feelings.
2007-02-03 00:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am only 2 years olde than you but, i think that you should just tell him_but only if you think there is a slight chance he might be into you) i know it does take a lot of balls, but it will pay off when you two are together.
2007-02-03 00:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by Angeleyes171 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can persnoly invite him for a work at a special place at school or at your house.Then you say that you love and you like him and also be confident if you are not then you will loose that chance.
Now tell me who is that lucky guy and wich school do you study because I am thinking that we are in same school.
and BEST OF LUCK.
2007-02-03 00:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by Himanshu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this happened to me last year in seventh grade. i really really like my friend, but i knew he wouldnt like me cuz we been friends since 4th grade. but i ended up tricking him to go out with me with a lil fortune teller thing. when u open the flap, it has the person's name. i made it, and he was doing it on me. i picked 7, which was the flap with his name underneath. so i had to go out with him. we went out for 3 months! hahahaha, but it was a bad idea, and i broke up with him. haha. we're still good friends, tho
2007-02-03 00:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try leaving him some hints that you like him. and if that dont work just tell him and see if he feels the same way.
2007-02-03 00:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Olivia♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hint at him that you want to be more than friends by calling him and chatting and also try to touch his hand to see if he grabs it if he likes you he will be willing to hold your hand back
2007-02-03 00:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by west17lake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋