2007-02-02 16:19:16 · 23 answers · asked by chattermich 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW! I would need to love him, but, yet, how would it work if he did not love me???? hmmmm..... it's a thinker....
2007-02-02 16:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by fayra_elm 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Someone that loves me.
The one that loves the least CONTROLS the relationship because they care less than the other (and have less at stake then the person who has invested their heart) so if there is a choice and the choice is MINE, there is no real choice for me.
I would rather not give someone that much power to destroy my heart.
2007-02-03 00:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go for someone you love. If you chose a person that loves you, but you have no feelings to return, then you will be unhappy. You should only go to the person you most care about and/or value. Sadly, if the person you love has no feelings for you, then it just wasn't meant to be.
2007-02-03 00:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by Selene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone I love.
2007-02-03 00:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would only be with someone I love that loves me also, I wouldn't settle for one or the other. And nobody else should either.
2007-02-03 00:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most likely i would rather go with someone that love me.Cause when u r going with someone that u love and they dont love u back its hard to deal with.
2007-02-03 00:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by Cherelle M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i had a boyfriend who loved me unconditionally... but i did not feel the same way i got out and found someone who loves me and i love him and that is the real answer... love is a 2 way street... love and be loved... it has to be both... never just one...
2007-02-03 00:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by want a princess baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my friend although this may seem cold and heartless...... it's better to be loved then to love ( my mom gave me that advice and years later i saw she was right ) see someone who loves you will do anything for you and is most likely to put up with your crap and you won't suffer while if you are the one in love then prepare to suffer, cry, beg, plead, nag and humilliate yourself. are you ready for that ??? i don't think so.. so go for the sure thing and as i am doing now it's better to be loved and well taken care of then to feel like crap and chase someone who is in the shoes you should be in. thats my advice. again i'm doing it now!
2007-02-03 00:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by jerseyman34 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some one you love but all depends on who is that someone you love, if you are attracted to him/her but they are dangerous, loserish, and not truly what your looking for then maybe you might want to consider the person who loves you..... who knows.... maybe if you give them a chance, and get to know them better, maybe you will love them back..... Things like that happen quite often
2007-02-03 00:23:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why go with someone who you don't love. So what if you break a heart. Everyone does.
2007-02-03 00:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
with someone i love
2007-02-03 00:23:22 · answer #11 · answered by Nonnie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋