My b/f for about a year and seven months is really jealous and i really hate that. He gets mad for like everything. I cant talk to no guy because he gets mad thinking that i am flirting with them. I want to break up with him but i cant because i am really attached to him. Wut should i do? Should i leave him?
2007-02-02 16:16:02 · 20 answers · asked by lostheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you live on this earth just like the rest of us,every where you go there are people f the opposite sex is he really that insecure with your relationship and if so then you need to decide if this is working for you,if hes jealous now imagine what it would be like if you married and were employed where men work too.
2007-02-02 16:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a reason to be jealous? Have you ever cheated on him? If not, then of course you should leave him. Look, the proper definition of dating is the search for the person you want to marry. Would you want to be married to someone who is going to get mad every time you talk to another guy? Of course, you wouldnt want that.
You are not really attached to him. If that were the case you wouldnt have written the question. Tell him that he has some great qualities but there are a few qualities that unfortunately cause the good ones to fade. For that reason you must leave. It doesnt have to be accusatory. Tell him that your intention is not to change him, but that you need to change yourself and that you need to find someone who will not get jealous. And then end it. Dont go back to him. You need to move on and find someone worthy of you. Good luck.
2007-02-03 00:22:57 · answer #2 · answered by Freak Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand completely what u mean when u say u wanna leave, but can't. Been there, done that. Take it for what's it's worth- if trust is an issue in a relationship, then there is no relationship. A good relationship is built on trust. Regardless of where you go or who you may talk to...you are your own person and no one should be able to take that from you. Check your man on this and if he's not feeling you.....GO GO GADGET SHOES!!!!!!
2007-02-03 00:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Off with his head! Have you sat down and had a heart to heart with him about this and told him out right your making it hard to be with you. Be up front and honest. Are you doing anything to make him doubt your fidelity. Do you let him know he is numero uno in your eyes. A year and half is a lot to invest in a relationship with somebody you cannot talk to. If he refuses to listen or cannot help you to see why he is insecure then go ahead and do him a favor and dump him.
2007-02-03 00:32:53 · answer #4 · answered by cold_fearrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of what's best for you. If you feel you'll be better off or the two of you will benefit from it, then yes, leave him.
If you feel like you'd be able to put up with his jelousy and decide to overlook it for the sake of your relationship...then stay with him.
Then again...if you haven't discussed this issue with him, you may want to do that first before making any decisions and see where that takes u.
Good luck, k.
2007-02-03 00:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by college girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he does not trust you. because of he jealous and you have
not given him any reason. then it time to let him know that you
dont like this kind of behavor and if this reatlinship will make
it he has to stop all the nonsense or timet to move on. but it
sound like he has some issues that he need to deal with and it
can get a lot worst if you dont handle it rignt away.
2007-02-03 00:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey! just leave him. B'coz though u r highly attached to this guy for now, u cant live with such person in future. just get rid of him. Suggesting u don't drag this till u face a bitter experience.
2007-02-03 00:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by bindu m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i were u, i would leave him coz it either means he dont trust u or he's a really insecure man who's not sure of what he wants or what he has. so to my point of view, this is how he reacts now, just imagine how he'll b or treat u in a couple of years. think about it
2007-02-03 00:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by GAbrielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely leave. He will only get worst. Next he'll be beating your azz and telling you that it's your fault and he does it because he loves you. Get out now!
2007-02-03 00:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by kyle g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him. There will be other guys that you will be attracted to. You'll meet them when this guy is out of the picture.
2007-02-03 00:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋