Is it ok to like women of all different races?

Question

I find every race of women (black,white,latina,etc) very attractive. Is that ok? Im half-Asian and half-white. But the problem is I cannot date women because women are turned down by Asian men. But im half-white meaning i cannot date Asian women who are traditional and other kind of Asian women only date pure white guys. How do I make myself look more white? I hate myself so loney cause of my heritage.

Answer 1

Is it okay to like women of all different races? Yes it is.
Not all women are turned off by Asian men, there are some out there who like Asian men.

You should be proud of who you are.

I am a single white female, but the only reason I won't date Asian men is not because I am turned off by them, it is because I have done research on Asian culture and there are traditions in there I do not want to interfere with.

I need to know one thing though, are you so desperate for a partner that you would throw yourself at females. Cause if that is the case it is no wonder they are turned off. It is not you personally, it is just that they can see you are desperate, and that is off putting.

Play it cool.

A friend of mine once told me that if she wants a guy, she can't get one, but if she acts like she is not interested, she can't get rid of them.

Maybe you should give that a try.

Try to pretend you are not interested. You do that and I reckon you will be married or at least in a long term relationship by the end of the year.

Answer 2

First of all don't say that about your self u should love your heritage see am from New Orleans one of the biggest melting pots in the U.S and most of the people that live hear have many heritage including me.It a good that you are attractive to many ethic backrounds i see nothing wrong with that am the same way don't for a second think your alone there are girls out there that will go out with you no matter if they are asian part asian or not if that girl is not u should give her a chance.

Answer 3

HAHA we're on the same boat! I'm half Asian and half Costa Rican (Mom is white Costa Rican). I have had thoughts like yours go through my mind in the past. I don't know what to say, but don't worry you're not the only one. All I can say is don't change. Heritage means jack, what matters is in your heart.

Answer 4

It's normal to be attracted to women of different races. Anyone who refuses to date you because you are mixed race is not worth dating. You should stop blaming your racial background for your lack of success with the ladies and look at the problem a bit harder to discover the real reason.

Answer 5

Of course it's OK that your attracted to all races, it's good that your not closed minded like so many people are. You shouldn't even think of changing yourself just for a woman, be patient the right one will come along especially since your open to any race.

Answer 6

Why are you asking to change. I'm also American Asian. I can't believe you that your saying you want to be white. fine be a white buut you are turning your back on your family history and Asia. Why don't you get plastic surgery for your face and dye your hair? But rather be like me and just ask and if you are their prince they will accept you as they did me

Answer 7

for one do not hate yourself! & for 2 if these womaen are so superficail not to get to know you for you & not your race then they are not for you. Start going to church & the community functions & you may find the RIGHT PERSON, sometimes people try to hard to be accepted, just be you. You will find true love when u least experct it. Quit trying to look for it. & Please don't look for a woman in a club, they are not at the club for love.

Answer 8

Your hertiage is not the problem it is the fact that you let it control your life. Just let life happen and feel free to explore.

Answer 9

I do NOT believe your heritage is the problem.

Answer 10

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