Not to sound cheap
Ladies when you have a boyfriend, is it right for the guys to pay all the time (i.e. dinner, movies, theme parks, et cetera, et cetera.)
2007-02-02 16:08:06 · 14 answers · asked by captstevenfusmc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if YOU ask her to do something then you should pay.. and vice versa. in the beginning first dates when the guy asks he should pay.. but once you become officially boyfriend and girlfriend then your girl should offer to pay, and going dutch is open as well. if she asks you to do whatever you are doing then she should usually pay!
2007-02-02 16:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe men should pay all the time. I think its best if you split the bill. Sometimes, maybe do a "I'll pay this time, you pay next time." For going to the movies, I think you should just pay for your own ticket. This isn't the past where men have to do everything concerning money and women just stay home and cook. In this world right now, men and women are equal. Therefore, in a relationship, they still are equal and should split things. Unless, of course, one would like to pay for everything at a certain time, then be my guest. But, if you're constantly fighting over the bill, just do the "I'll pay this time, you pay next time."
hope this helps
2007-02-02 16:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Selene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST its the guys and over time money splits between the two of you unless the girl is selfish and doesnt want to spend on you but it is the gentlemen way to pay first then time goes on
2007-02-02 16:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by ஐﻬ уαмι ηι cнιяυ ѕαкυяα ﻬஐ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you call her, suggesting to go to the movies or a date or whatever, you're definitely paying but it goes the same with women. If they call suggesting a night at the movies, they better not expect YOU to pay.
2007-02-02 16:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is not any way i could enable the female pay on the 1st date. they are the two noticeably crappy. yet a minimum of Lil turn made it on his own somewhat of driving his brother's coattails. So I say Silkk is worse.
2016-12-16 19:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by forgach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well actually it's like a tradition When a girl pays it means she really loves someone
2007-02-02 16:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
typically, when they're the ones asked you out. but that don't happen in everyday life. On the other hand, if your are more traditional person like myself, you'd offer to pay no matter waht. that's just the way I was brought up. Good enough, yes?
2007-02-02 16:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by FILO 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so. At first the guy should always pay but as you keep progressing through the relationship, it is more common to go dutch.
2007-02-02 16:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you ask her out, you should pay.
If she asks you, she should pay.
By the fourth date, most women are happy to split the costs. Most of us are financially independent, but it is nice when your date pays for your meal. However, we do like to treat you too.
2007-02-02 16:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by Kelsey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah not all the time. I reckon the only time a lady should pay, is when SHE takes HIM to restaurant.
2007-02-02 16:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋