Ok I am almost 16 never had a boy friend or never been kissed why is that?
2007-02-02 16:06:43 · 23 answers · asked by dontchababy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everyone.. i dont have to worry about grades.. I am home-schooled...its easy
2007-02-02 16:17:01 · update #1
alright, I can relate. I am 21 and have never been kissed. Not that I'm unattractive or have never been asked out its just that I'm a hopeless romantic. I'm holding out for that one special guy. Maybe it'll happen tomorrow, next week, in 6 months, in a year...who knows...your still young and it'll happen. God has someone very special for you as he has for me.
2007-02-06 16:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are still a child. Why are you rushing things? Be a kid! You only have a few more years left before you will be forced to be an adult. Here is a dirty little secret: You dont need to keep up with your friends to be cool. It would be better for you to concentrate on getting good grades right now. Pretty soon you are going to want a job so you can make money. While your friends are more concerned with socializing, being seen with guys, or even worse: PREGNANT, you will be working a job with a great salary and have a great start on life. The boyfriend stuff will come later. Just be a kid for right now. It will not be too long from now when you cant be a kid, and you cant get it back.
2007-02-02 16:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Freak Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One or a combination of several things:
~self-esteem issues resulting in an inability to speak with and open up to guys
~extreme introversion and lack of social activity
~arrogance, bitchiness, or being annoying; it's amazing what a turnoff that can be, especially when a girl doesn't realize she's being that way.
~issues or past abuse involving your father or other prominent male figure in your life that leaves you weary or even hateful towards men as a whole
~lack of the right, mature boy for you to date
~lesbian tendencies?
I wouldn't worry about not having a boyfriend in highschool. Those relationships are typically short-lived and meaningless in the long run anyway
2007-02-02 16:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many motives: a million.) you probable come off as a tom boy, they see you as between the boys. 2.) they could secretly have a weigh down on you, don't be suprize of a minimum of one million or 2 of them do. 3.) What do you recommend through weird and wonderful? Everyones weird and wonderful. everyone seems attracted to different type of personalities. 4.) nicely...... because you've countless guy acquaintances, why do not you only ask them why you under no circumstances have a boyfriend? 5.) Or they could imagine you're a lezbo which Ive been advised my nasty jealous women human beings, calling me a tom boy. perhaps they imagine you're reserved or attracted to women human beings. no longer announcing you're yet which will be a reason. i do not comprehend chicky! perhaps you come back off picky or maybe you're so enormously that they are intimidated through you. if you're autonomous and also you come back off loose lively it makes men variety of grew to develop into off through it. men are think to be the service, women human beings are think to be the seekers. each and every from time to time it would not artwork like that! each and every from time to time you need to be the service, be the autonomous one the position you come back off no longer wanting a boyfriend. or maybe you imagine this about your self yet different men do not. perhaps you're only no longer their variety! Who is popular with?
2016-11-24 20:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the reason why you havent had a boyfriend or been kissed yet is because maybe guys think you are why tooooooo pretty for them and they know they havent made it to your level.so dont worry to much why you dont have a boyfriend or why havent you been kissed yet.its better to wait for that perfect kiss that you can remember for life.i know there is a bunch of guys out there just wanting to be with you girl so dont get your hopes down because i know your beautiful in the inside and out side just wait til the perfect guy comes
2007-02-02 16:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 is nothing. High school relationships usually aren't worth it anyways. You get stuck with a label from the beginning and it stays with you til you graduate. People change soo much in those 4 years. When you get to college, that is when people see you for who you really are.
2007-02-02 16:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats ok, just wait. i wondered the same thing for a long time (im now 17.5) and i just had a boy say he was interested in me. we started hanging out and i had my first kiss. just dont worry about it and eventually it will come.
2007-02-02 16:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus, it's good to hear of a girl that HASN'T been kissed or sexual or freakin pregnant for a change. The girls round my way are either pregnant, has kid(s), or has had more sex partners than me (and i'm 35). Guess they did too much kissin? lol. don't rush boo, it'll happen
2007-02-02 16:13:30 · answer #8 · answered by jobs1012003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cause you havent flirted
or u have a really bad personality jk kinda....
no but you have to let guys know youre available so they can make a move
maybe they think of you as their buddy
there are tons of reasons
but dont try to rush it DONT RUSH IT ENJOY...
first kiss very valuable VERY SPECIAL MOMENT
when the time comes the time comes it will be very special
2007-02-02 16:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by ஐﻬ уαмι ηι cнιяυ ѕαкυяα ﻬஐ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 16 so what ???
If you ask the same question when you are 30, I can see a problem..
2007-02-02 16:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋