Okay well i like this girl, emily, at my school and i have her in a lot of my classes. She always talks to me and walks we me to the classes we have together. She used to have a boyfriend but they broke up and i really want to be with her, but dont know how to ask her. I am such a shy guy that i dont think i could ask her face to face cause ill probably just die of heart failure. I am friends with her on facebook and i am wondering if i should ask her out on there. We are both going to college in the same city an i hope we could have a long lasting relationship so please tell me what you think i should do.
2007-02-02 15:52:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her out as a friend you kno, with other friends and you all go to the movies and gradually make it a normal thing then when you get close to her....... pounce and ask her out but hurry before some one else strikes first.
2007-02-02 15:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by kandi61689 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you start out by being a secret admirer. Don't do the facebook thing so impersonal. Send her flower anonymously. make a card for her. leave chocolates at her door step. (whatever you know she likes) Get her super excited and then have her meet you somewhere...tell her that you will have something specific on the table or make reservations under a different name and have the hostess bring her to that table. (tell her all of this in a letter so she won't know that it is you until she sees you at the restaurant or wherever you want to meet her. Something like that is romantic and fun also. (you could also have her do a treasure hunt...giving her clues to go to the next place with clues to the final spot where you will be with a picnic or something. Just a thought. I would defnately go out with a guy who did that for me.
2007-02-02 16:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by ews3005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely not ask her out online. That is not something that a girl would appreciate. But maybe the next time you see her, you should ask if she would like to get some pizza or watch a movie or something. Break the ice, with "so, how are classes going?" or "how do you think you did on the .... test?"...and then lead in with "so, I was thinking, would you like to maybe catch a movie sometime". Hope that helps. Good luck.
2007-02-02 15:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by shor_tee81 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think--not to be rude-- that you should suck it up, gather some courage, and ask her in person. It will mean a lot more to her if you actually ask her and don't just like email her or whatever. If you really care about her, which it sounds like you do, you should be able to tell her how you feel or a relationship is out of the question.
2007-02-02 16:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because boys are better like technologies then the girl they continuously attempt to seek for brand new issues and also in preserving with awareness of internet, pc continues to be luxury merchandise generic well worth man or woman to rearrange for residing house. And lot of girls do not decide on to flow in cyber cafe i imagine those are some reason which i imagine females isn't pleasing in
2016-12-03 09:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her a cute little note saying how shy you were to ask her out...at the end of the letter tell her that the next time you guys meet you'll leave it up to her to say something about it and if she doesn't then she doesn't want a relationship,.
2007-02-02 15:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with her some more crack a few jokes and like when shes in a good mood and while she is still smiling her pretty smile in the hallways just kinda hint around to it then ask her or give her a 1 red rose on valentines w/ a lil card in it asking her...i owuld die 4 that....(im a girl thats 14 so i kinda know this stuff)
2007-02-02 15:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Start a casual conversation.
2. Flirt slightly
3. Ease into asking her.(for example talk about the movies you wanna see and ask her if she would come with you or talk about how good the pizza is down the black and ask her if she wants to get some with you.
http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Smooth-With-the-Ladies
http://www.wikihow.com/Woo-a-Girl
use little pieces from each article.
2007-02-02 16:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by Koko Butta Kream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first take things slow first. try more to be her guy than friend. BUT REAL SLOW! Tell her in a month or so. You got to make a connection with her first. Let her be comftabel with you. Don't worry if your shy. Girls sometime love a guy who's shy.
2007-02-02 15:58:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE..WHATEVER YOU DO DON'T ASK HER OUT OVER THE COMPUTER!!! It shows insecurity, a women loves a strong man, tell her how you feel face-to-face, face your fears, don't be scared, you might be surprised at her answer, and maybe you'll have a girl on your arms!
2007-02-02 15:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by ~ ♥ Sun$hine ♥ ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋