I have recently started the whole Internet Dating world - and I am meeting some really lovely people. However, I am finding a bit of a "Full on" trend - where it is like they want to sweep you off your feet - rather than get to know each other, begin dating and see where it goes.
I have met 4 guys that told me they were falling in love with me within a week and several that are very generous with gifts, flowers and holidays.
What is this all about? We are in our 30s. Shouldn't everyone be a little more sensible about dating these days? or do they think that is women want from men?
2007-02-02 15:48:35 · 9 answers · asked by Jodes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've never been one to give alot to women. I'm a taker. I take alot of rejection, abuse, neglect, and ridicule. Ha-ha. Just trying to make light of this. Most guys have a hard time relaxing when they are infatuated with a beautiful woman who is paying attention to them, unless it's "just another woman". Do you want to be "just another woman" to a man, or do you want to be loved? There are no time limits or restraints on love. It is a feeling which should be cherished and nurtured, or rejected if you don't feel the same, but never denied as being true. You never know.
2007-02-02 15:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 08:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men in their 30's are ready to settle down. They want to find it quick and get started. It doesn't mean that they don't take it seriously. They are just more technically minded than we are. This means if marriage is a goal for them, they are just trying to reach that goal the best way they know how.
2007-02-02 15:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by mandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people fall in love quick and easily. Tell them to slow it down..What concerns me is that you may be missing out on the one person who's right for you for holding back..Also before you even go on a date let him/her know that you do not want to move fast and if it still happens drop him/her and move on.
2007-02-02 15:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by lata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, you said it: they think that's what women want. But the problem is this. If you give a woman what you think she wants, the woman will say you're trying too hard and break it off. It you don't treat her like a queen, she'll think you're a slob and do likewise.
2007-02-02 15:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meh, just take your gifts and be happy. Dump them later if you don't feel a good connection. Is it your fault they tried too hard to impress you?
2007-02-02 15:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Tuco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the guy u dated are just players and trying to get what they want out of you...be careful out there
2007-02-02 15:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by should i ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look lady, they are just trying to get into your pants. And perhaps you into thiers.
2007-02-02 15:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They proubably don't want to get to know you.
2007-02-02 15:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by Chelsea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋