There is this girl that I truly think I am in love with. We used to text and talk a lot online a lot before. It was so hard for me to confess my true feelings to her a couple of months ago and she said she didn't ever want to speak to me again. She eventually spoke to me soon after that again and I told her that I had feelings for her. She passed it off as nothing had happened the couple following days, I felt awkward around her. She doesn't seem like she is ready for another kind of relationship with a boy right now (maybe after graduation).She however seems like flirts with a lot of her friends and doesn't even realize it. we suddenly stopped talking as much as before... little to no contact for a week, even thought we go to the same school. It makes me feel like I am being pushed away from her and everyone of my friends. My heart and soul hurt whenever I think about her. I've been acting... well... "emo-ish"... distant and barley say any words during lunch. Please I need some advice
2007-02-02 15:38:36 · 5 answers · asked by my fragile life 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that I don't want to stop fighting for this girl just yet... I'm slowly but surely exiting out of this "depression" and I want to be happy now because of certain recent events. I love her, even though she doesn't think I do anymore, or at least knows I'm trying to let go. I don't want to do it just yet. I know when I should let go, but just not now...
2007-02-02 16:09:40 · update #1
I seriously doubt that you have time to listen to what I have to say because you are so involved in your pity-party, my guess is that you don't have time for anything else. You come on Yahoo for somebody to say, poor - poor you and you think that this sympathy will make you feel better. Well, sympathy will not make you feel better and you won't get sympathy from me.
You can continue with this persecution complex that you have or you can just move on and enjoy your life. Young man, you have something others would pay millions and millions of dollars for. You have youth! So many envy that you have many, many years to go and many, many experiences to experience.
Think of it this way, every minute you're involved in your personal pity-party, you are delaying the time until you experience another relationship, another friendship, another experience. You are so lucky and if you realize this you won't get hung up on one girl who in 2-3 years from now, you won't even remember her name.
Don't let her win by bringing you down. You tried, you didn't get the results you wanted, okay. Now, use this experience and move on to bigger and better things. Just remember, if you continue this pity-party, eventually you'll bore those around you then it will be very, very lonesome. So move on, and realize how lucky you are to have the time and the youth to gain a lot more experiences in life.
2007-02-02 15:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i can tell you this .. first of all the online thing is ok,,but sometime i see things like this and want to say find a real relationship but i cant..if you are looking for a permanent thing or a mate. try finding a Filipino girl online and form a relationship with her and then go visit her..if she doest work out there is an ocean of available women over there that will treat you go and you will find someone to bring home and make you a nice woman..if you are just trying to have a just a online non real relationship then go to yahoo chatrooms there are many girls there that will chat with you and have an online relationship.The reason i tell you this is im 52 and been in relationships and even yes online at times..they are more fantasies than anything else. just let it go its really not worth the trouble of being depressed ..there are many more where that came from unless you were seriously thinking of hooking up. Not trying to be rude here but the girls that stay online are not just talking to you they are talking to at least 10 to more guys at once to make their choice and i have known girls that actually talk to 30 or 40 at a time and then see one or two and take sometimes years to make a descion..i really think the whole thing is a big rip off but well i dont have to worry about that anymore im married again lol..just my second wife but didnt meet online ..thank goodness not that there is anything wrong with that.. just the facts here.
2007-02-02 23:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need your eyes on a new girl. And if that's too hard, give her a little time to shake things off and when you think things are right, TALK to her. Don't rush anything by asking her out or spilling out all of your feelings.
Good luck! :-P
2007-02-02 23:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres a good article i found http://tjek.nu/sv talks about depression and the best treatments for an easy cure hope it helps!
2007-02-04 14:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by Tom l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First. What the hell is EMO-ish???
Second. Dunno.
2007-02-02 23:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋