i get really angry all the time. the smallest things can make me go off. i scream a lot for no reason. the person i take it out on is me husband. i avoid questions about anything. i feel like i want to be alone, and if anyone comes near me and asks a question i just start screaming and want to throw things. i dont work i stay home while he works. could that have something to do with it?
thanks
2007-02-02 15:34:24 · 5 answers · asked by lynnfulcher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-02-02 15:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I admire you for staying home. It's a tough job and I think it can take it's toll if you don't have a bud to have coffee with or go to lunch with once in awhile. I think you need an outlet of some kind. Go take a class at the community college. If you don't get a catalog in the mail, stop by and get one. Or go to a continuing education course that the public school system offers. They have courses in cooking, gardening, art, some even offer little day trips. I'm a snapper, too. It's a bad habit, but you can ask the Lord to break you of it. It takes a lot of work, but you can do it. Forgive and forget things and people which have hurt you. When someone offends you, forgive them right then and there (in your mind) and let it go and do it to the glory of the Lord. I'm sure you behavior is taking a toll on your husband, so start thinking about how you would feel if he treated you that way. There are women's circle groups at church that meet once a month, usually in the morning, at the church and sometimes at people's homes, but not so much any more. You might meet a nice new friend there. You aren't a bad person. I just think your are overwhelmed, unfulfilled or frustrated about something. Ask the Lord to fill that void. Best wishes.
2007-02-02 23:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's only 'two' reasons why someone 'blows up' all the time! #1, It could be a chemical or hormonal imbalance.
#2. You are simply in denial of a 'deep rooted'
resentment about something.
I actually believe it to be #2., because if it were
#1 there would be lots of other symtoms also,
but you mention nothing else only angry outbursts.
Everyone who has resentments 'always' know
deep down inside 'what' they are resentful about. If I were you I'd think 'real' hard to pinpoint the culprit and then go about ridding yourself of this awful problem, resolving the issue by forgiving 'whoever' or 'whatever' has caused this. If you continue to have this issue
I would strongly suggest you seek professional help..
2007-02-03 03:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask yourself why you get angry all the time. (Go ahead and yell at me, I can handle it) Once you figure that out, you're all set. If you think it's because your husband works and you have to stay home, try suggesting to your husband that you'd like to get out and do something. If he gripes about having another source of income, well... I have yet to meet a man (well, a real one) who would have a problem with that, to tell the truth!
2007-02-02 23:40:00 · answer #4 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
counseling couldn't hurt.You could have bipolar depression. If you recently gave birth you could be having postpartum depression. Maybe you are pregnant .With out knowing the full story, it's really hard to say.
You can e-mail me if you want me to try to help you more. Either way good luck and I hope things get better
2007-02-02 23:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by mommyof2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋