2007-02-02 15:31:42 · 37 answers · asked by RAHUL S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
this is a question that can only be answered by you..
it depends on your beliefs and expectations....
2007-02-02 15:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Texas Cookie 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If you are asking if it is legal, then yes. As long as your not violating any age restrictions or doing it with your siblings or anyting.
If your asking if it is moral, then that depends on who you ask. It is my personal belief as a Christian that sex is wrong before marriage, because it creates a very special irreversable union and if there is no lifetime commitment then there is issues. I don't know what your personal religious beliefs are, or if you even have any. You have to decide for yourself what your morals are on the subject.
If you are asking because you have already done it and your afraid of reprecussions, then don't be scared. You won't get into any legal trouble, and from my point of view, Jesus forgives (that's the whole point of Christianity) so all you have to do is say your sorry and forget about it.
Now, even though there is no legal issue, and even though (from the Christian faith) you are forgiven, you might still have to deal with physical consequences, such as an unplanned pregnancy or an STD.
2007-02-02 15:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Chip 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wrong question... Place it this way - Is sex ethical before marraige?
The answer is NOOOOOO!!!
Seems we are getting primitive again. In early days human beings were like animals. They knew nothing about clothing, and nothing about building a perfect society to be in harmony with the nature. In medevial ages, amn designed society and laid out few ethics. One of these ethics was about liftime commitment called marraige.
A human being has a few traits. One of the traits is running away from his responsibilities and the other is asking for the best. So a ritual called marraige was designed by the society so that one cannot turn his back towards his/her responsibilities once he/she commits himself/herself to someone. If one does turn back he/she was outcasted by the society. That was a good way infact to maintain the ongoing process of developing a community.
Sex is not just for fun. It has a lot to do with our psycho. A perfect sex balances our mind. But if you keep trying people for sex before marraige, at the end when you decide to marry one, you will find something missing out. You would compare your spouse with someone you had sex earlier and feel unsatisfied at some point. This will bring in discontent among the pair.
However if you are talking about have sex with the same person you are about to marry, that's ok if and only with the others consent and if you feel you can handle all your responsibilities and stick to your commitments whatsoever happens. Even if the other fails to do so.
But the problem is people are afraid of commitments. That is the reason people have started developing the feeling that marraige is nothing but a ceremony, true love is from the hearts. That's just a stupid reason we give to run away from our commitments. If you really love someone, you can wait till you guys get married.
And if you wanna have sex just for fun, why ask the question and waste our time when you have decided what you wanna do...
:-)
2007-02-03 04:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"significant" religions all frown upon or limit premarital kinfolk, and typically all sexual practices that are not dedicated to procreation. maximum of those similar religions also limit birth control strategies as well (that is impressive that Jewish prepare is going so a strategies as to limit sex between a guy and his spouse even as she's menstruating). Many "smaller" religions have little or no longer some thing to assert about premarital sex. Satanism and Paganism are obtrusive, yet Unitarians, Quakers, Reform Judaism, and many different prepared faiths attempt to handle non-procreative sexual acts in a extra non secular way. there's a extra compelling argument to be made, that the clarification religions which in common words enable procreative sex are the biggest is because they have a better determination bias - it truly is only trouble-free evolutionary idea. that is, because they implement extra easily breeding, they spread extra straight away. this will be why it variety of appears like "all religions limit pre-marital sex" -- because in the experience that they did not, they does no longer prevail adequate to be significant religions.
2016-11-24 20:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex was made exclusively for marriage.... because it has 2 basic functions: apart from the fun, unitive part it's also to make babies, and usually that's not on teens minds... that's why we have so many unwanted pregnancies that equal abortions... :(
So in God's eyes sex is NOT allowed before marriage... and after all remember "at the end of time... it is between you and God, it was never between you and them:" (Mother Teresa said this) Them being your friends, your partner, society, etc.
So think about it long and ask yourself are you really ready for such a responsibility that could actually bring babies into the world, not clumps of cells as they say at "those clinics", but actual heart-beating, thinking babies. Abstinence is the only way to prevent STDs and unwanted pregnancies... because no birth control is 100% effective.
2007-02-02 15:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by C a R L i T a 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
by GOD no, we should follow GOD'S will. we all should faithfully give our selves to him 100%. but the Forgiveness that GOD give us though the salvation of the lord JESUS CHRIST allows us, for we are full of sin and fall short of the glory of GOD. think about this if somebody offers you 2 cans of pop. 1 open the other un opened you would probably take the un opened can right??????? wouldn't you do the same for a person that you might want to marry? wouldn't you want a virgin??? you can always learn together the "right way to have sex" that is one of the things that is a gift from GOD.
2007-02-02 15:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by greg j 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think sex is right before marriage but if u r out of school and really love that person and no for sure ur going to be together forever then maybe its ok but if u dont really like the person i recommend u dont.
2007-02-02 15:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by emochick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an incomplete question. LOL! What are you asking? Is sex allowed before marriage in a particular religion? In a particular culture in the world? WHAT?
As for me personally, I think there is nothing wrong with pre-marital sex.
2007-02-02 15:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Depends On Ur Girlfriend
2007-02-02 15:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by 100 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In case of sex before marriage, there will be NO suhag raat. Sex can be at any time but all things should happen at proper time. Thora sa tharo, saari ki saari hu tumari.
2007-02-05 00:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it's up to you. I think that as long as you are protected and make sure that you are confident in your partner why not. According to God, you arn't allowed to have sex prior to marriage. Now a days it's a personal prefrence and how close you are to your religion.
2007-02-02 15:45:48 · answer #11 · answered by Tyler and Kassidy's momma 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋