Month and a half ago,i met up with some friends at a resturant.One of the guys i kinda knew,brought his girl.As we talked she seemed like a really cool girlThe guy even left for a little bit,so we talked and had some good conversationAfter leaving,i never see her againThen,a month later,i go into my work, some girl had come in and left me a note.I read it and it left her number.I finally remember who it was,and after work gave her a callWe went out that night,had fun,talked alot,madeout,etcWe agreed to not play games and to be open with each otherWe then went out the next 2 nights,after that we kept in contact that week,but things started getting werid."she couldnt find time". the next week we talked and she said she wanted to date around and have fun and not have a relationship,which she thought i did.She said she has interest in meBut she said we barely know each other.I said call me when you find some time and left it up to her.Its been over a week now.Does she have interest in me?
2007-02-02 15:30:41 · 10 answers · asked by e7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dare say that this girl is confused.
She may have been interested in you at first, but she has obviously lost some of that interest.
It sounds like she has told you exactly what is going on anyway.
She likes you, but she does not want to get into a relationship with you... or anyone else.
Has she just broken up with someone?
Getting attention from someone who obviously likes you can put you on a high. This high can often be mistaken for affectionate feelings, but once you get to know a person, you realise that although you like them as a person..... You may not be interested in them in a romantic sense.
This may be what happened with her. She may have realised that she likes you and would like to keep you as a freind but does not know how to tell you this without hurting you.
If you want to stay friends with her, then tell her that you are happy to hang out, but you don't want a relationship.
If you are too hung up on her to stay friends, then let it go and move on.
Do not stay friends with her in the hopes that soemthing will happen later on. This never ends nicely. The girl can usually feel that you want something more and it can be uncomfortable. It can also make the man angry and verbally abusive. I have seen even the nicest men do this.
Sorry this was so long winded. Hope I helped.
2007-02-02 16:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by originalpuppycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to Sex 101: Playing the field.
If you're not in a committed relationship, you have free reign to date whomever and see whomever you want. Feel free to try new things and explore the different options that are available to you. I think Kevin Smith put it out pretty clearly in his Movie, Clerks II:
Let's say you find some chick (or dude) who really floats your boat. Let's say things are rough around the edges, but you make the relationship work. Well, you live for life for twenty years, and then one day, another person comes along that is absolutely awesome that is a million times better match for you than your current partner is.
With over six billion people in the world, the odds are that you might be happy with the person you pick, but the odds of finding the absolute closest match is STAGGERINGLY against you. Therefore, when your young, experiment, and find out what is right for you.
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The questions you had with communicating all point to not playing the field and focusing a lot of energy. At least take the time to find out what a good match is for you. You're going to have your heart broken, you're going to break someone else's heart, and you'll both be better person because of it.
Please rent Clerks II - You'll get it. Try Chasing Amy too.
Play Ball!
2007-02-02 23:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by camrylev6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like this girl is full of it. Well its pretty clearshes not interested in a relationship. She may like u, but then again she may like a lot of other guys. Right now shes in party mode and just wants to have fun. It has nothing to do with u so dont worry!
2007-02-02 23:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by deanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhmm, personally. if she hasnt called u she just made up an excuse not 2 c u anymore. srry if this sounds mean but is better 2 start seeing othr people. TRUST ME it REALLY works!!
when u start talkin 2 sum1 else nd start gettin atteracted 2 dat person nd u 4 get about ur previous crush and move on.
2007-02-02 23:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by *C@ll.me.@.dre@meR* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is interested, but is not in the romantic mood or does not want to take things too fast and too serious cause what you have is too good to be true, that she wants to take things little by little
she likes you she just doesnt know what to do
if you can even lead your relationship then no one would be confused
let it go smoothly dont think too much, if youre with her enjoy your time together and not think too much about where your relationship will go, let things take their natural course, dont think too much, just enjoy have fun
2007-02-02 23:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she still likes u cause u still like her and u want to go out somewhere and if she makes an excuse go find someone else
2007-02-02 23:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like she might like you, but she doesn't want to be in a serious relationship. to me, it sounds like she just wants a fling, and nothing more.
2007-02-02 23:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, probably not. i know girls play hard to get but not that hard...plus, didnt you say you met when she was dating your friend?? i sugest you move on.
2007-02-02 23:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by lalie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Note is too long. I got bored. Just ask her out and if she says no again then drop it.
2007-02-02 23:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
she probably did at first like you, maybe she lost interest
2007-02-02 23:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by cowmoomoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋