We haven't talked for a long time (see my other question) but I really do want to get her something just because of the way I feel about her. On the other hand, if I do get her something she might think I still give her too much power (over me). But then if I don't, she might think I must not care about her at all. It probably seems like that anyway since I started ignoring her, but I don't know what she's thinking or feeling. what do I do?
2007-02-02 15:28:45 · 8 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like her, then why not? Just don't go overboard withit, because if she doesn't want pursue a relationship with you then you don't want to have wasted a lot of money for mothing. But then again don't be cheap about it because then it would make her think you felt obligated to give her something, so you found the cheapest thing and bought it. Go for the simple box of chocolates, a card and a rose. Just get one rose because a dozen is too much money for your situation. This tells her, you still care but your not going to be on your knees for every command. Hope this helps!
Ambi
2007-02-02 15:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course you should get her something..she would love it...any girl would love it....I think you should go for it and you really dont wanna make her feel bad so if you do get her something it will make her feel like you care...it would be a really sweet gesture!!!!!
2007-02-02 23:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by ~britt~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try giving her something to figure out. something anonymous or mysterious. like a valentines day treasure hunt. that way you show you care yet give her the thrill of the chase and show that you cant be played like a puppet. if your not up to being that creative its up to you. good luck! =)
2007-02-02 23:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. It depends on if you wanna be with her or not. Get something very romantic if your feelings are strong. If it is just friendly get her a rose or something simple.
2007-02-02 23:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Koko Butta Kream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats stupid you have'nt talk to her a long time ago and you want to give her something just give her a valentines card
2007-02-02 23:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by l_guy_fr0m_s4turn_l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her something. women love that
2007-02-02 23:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by chocolate lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that would be very cute! :-P
Good luck! :-D
2007-02-03 00:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no duh! well its your choice but its better if you do
2007-02-02 23:33:43 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋