heres the story when i got with my bf we were more like friends with benefits and we both told eachother that we both never really wanted to say i love you because in the past relationships we had said it and ment it but the other did'nt so we decicde to keep it with fwb but know i think i do love him how do i tell him this wen he seems to still enjoy just the fwb deal... also how do i know we to tell him and will he tell it to me back or wat should happen!
2007-02-02 15:28:09 · 9 answers · asked by brittany bear! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bite your tongue and wait till he says it if he dont your not gonna be embarrassed or hurt so learn this now.. dont go deeper.. ur just getting closer think of it this way your just tight for the moment as personally guys are immature and takers.. they are beasts... so keep this in mind- havent you learned yet?
2007-02-02 15:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a perfect example for why this "friends with benefits" deal never works out. One of the people involved always develops deeper feelings and subsequently gets them crushed. Don't tell him how you feel, it will just create an awkward scene when he has to fumble for a way to tell you "thanks, but no thanks" without coming across as rude. Just end the booty-call relationship (you don't have to give any reasons) and find someone new whom you can enjoy an emotional as well as intimate relationship with.
2007-02-02 23:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, even if he doesnt tell you back, will you still be fwb? or at least friends? thats what you need to think of first.
if you think everything will be alright no matter what way it goes, then id say just tell him! tell him you know you guys werent supposed to say it, and you werent planning on feeling this way, but you do, and you think he should know. then tell him that you wont be disappointed if he doesnt fell the same (you prolly will though!) and you want to continue your fwb thing, but you wanted to "warn" him... then kinda laugh about it to lighten up the mood.... then say something semi random like "you know us girls can be crazy sometimes" or something to make him smile. and see what he does....
thats what i did before, and it worked!
either way, good luck hon!
2007-02-02 23:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by julie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is a tricky situation. i say wait a bit longer. and really think about it, why do you love him? when females have sex they release a feel good li love you hormone. calle oxytocin or something? anyway, it just might be the simplr fact that ur sharign ur body that is making you feel all mushy. try to be logical.
2007-02-02 23:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He most likely wont want to change what he has till he has his mind on love too. If he isnt ready for it, then you will lose him to say it
2007-02-02 23:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by zunyone1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him and tell him that you mean it and that he is always on your mind and in your heart.
2007-02-02 23:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by swimminglifeguard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke the rules.
2007-02-02 23:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by dave w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanna make more friends?
2007-02-02 23:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him how you feel so you can just get it off your chest.
2007-02-02 23:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by meek n humble spirit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋