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Im still hanging out with a guy who for 3 months told me he wanted to be serious but needed to work out issues with an x. We were having regular sex and spending every waking moment together. Were apart for 3wks for school break. he comes back and says relationships are too hard, wants to take it slow. Im thinking this hurts too bad and need to stay away from him, to get over it. All the while hes calling me non-stop and coming to my room. Says he still has romantic feelings for me and likes spending time. I feel like I dont want to stop those activities b/c I still have those feelings, but Im thinking he should not be benefiting from my sentiments, if he doesnt feel the same.

I feel like to outsiders I look like a fool. he has all the benefits minus sex that a gf would give him. i think this is why Im having a problem with it now. am I wrong or stupid for this? Is my self esteem low? I asked him once why is he always askign me for things and he said b/c he likes dependin on

2007-02-02 15:27:29 · 3 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

3 answers

he is not the one
if he ever was the one
you need not doubt on yourself
you need not even question self esteem
if you even really love him, it should bring out the best in you
being with him should make you feel,complete, happy, free and interested in life
he is not the one for you
youre only feeling that way for him, because you have nobody else to focus on or other more important things to do, but if you had something or someone more important he wouldnt even be in your vocabulary

2007-02-02 15:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0 0

So basically he's in a relationship with you but he just doesn't want to call it one? Sounds like you should cut off all the benefits until he a) realizes he can't use you anymore and leaves or b) gets it together and decides to work on being in a real relationship with you.

2007-02-02 23:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by questing 1 · 0 0

Tell him that you are not a give away program for those who can't make decisions. When he has his life together, he can stop by.

2007-02-02 23:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by Nort 6 · 0 0

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