I will never do it.....will I ever find a guy that actually respects it? I think it immoral and nasty.
2007-02-02 15:20:30 · 43 answers · asked by Rachael P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not 12....I am in 20's ......why doesn't anyone else think it is nasty and immoral?
2007-02-02 15:26:11 · update #1
I need therapy because I dont want to do something that I believe is immoral? yea right....I am just not a typical whore like most women.
2007-02-02 15:31:27 · update #2
right there with ya babe!
2007-02-02 15:23:04 · answer #1 · answered by blab 2 · 6⤊ 5⤋
This is tough to answer without knowing your experience on the topic. If you're new to it, there is a learning curve. If you're not, (by not, I mean, tried it at least three times on three different partners) then don't force yourself to do something you hate. Sex is NOT a shameful act in any of its forms. I think you might be confusing immorality with embarrassment about being new at something.
Pleasing your fella orally really can be a good experience. Sex should be a comfortable experience between two willing partners. Please keep in mind that you both need to be in tune with your own comfort levels, and you should respect each others boundaries.
One of the toughest things about sex is trying to feel out the comfort zones of a new partner. What one partner enjoys might be something that another partner wouldn't consider (for instance, anal sex.)
My suggestion would be to make sure that you give each other time. You might consider adding a certs or hot cinnamon gum to the experience. You might also decide to skip "drinking the protein payload" and split something out. Finally, if it's something after a few times you simply hate doing, don't do it.
Finally - Religion and sex are infinitely intertwined - I think you will find that if you have very strong religious beliefs and are experimenting with sex, then you will have a VERY hard time learning the ropes. Relax - give it a shot, (great pun!) and learn from the experience.
2007-02-02 15:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by camrylev6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're nuts i may have not had sex because am still a virgin but there are some people that will do it but as for me i kind of don't want 2 do it but there may be people out there that may want 2 do it to u and there may be some one out there that feels the same way and will respect the fact that u don't want 2 have oral sex.
2007-02-02 15:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by Demetra P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, there are guys out there who will respect your moral standings on various aspects of sex. They are rare, I admit, but they are around.
Now as for my personal views on oral sex...
I view it the same way as I would view vaginal sex, that it is wrong outside of marriage. But if a married couple decides to have oral sex, then by all means why not? Of course, I am speaking as a man, women probably feel differently about it.
Hang in there, you'll find a respectful guy soon enough!
2007-02-02 15:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Chip 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is just another form of love making its not for every girl or guy. But i respect your feelings on the matter. It is not immoral when 2 people love each other. It is just another way to please each other. You will find a guy who wont care about that. I don't just want a sweet caring girl oral sex does not matter to me.
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2007-02-02 15:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of people that think the same way, though I am not one of them. If the person is clean, respectful, and reciprocating, oral sex can be an awesome experience for both of you. I enjoy giving as much as receiving, seriously. It's also about the person you're with. You need to find someone who doesn't judge, and is openminded concerning your personal beliefs.
2007-02-02 15:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Different strokes for different folks. Myself, I see nothing wrong with the complete emersion of ones self into the body of your partner. It is total acceptance of them and they of you. The only thing immoral or "Nasty" is what's in your mind. Oral sex is no different than making love to every other part of their bodies from head to toe. What's nasty about that?
2007-02-02 15:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by smilindave1 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Considering the human mouth is one of the filthiest orifices on the planet...it is definitely dirty. I personally don't like it, sure it feels good, but I see it as degrading to the woman. I do it to please my wife whenever she wants it because I respect the wishes of my wife. Outside of marriage, even sex the way it was designed for is immoral.
2007-02-02 18:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by Jalapinomex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are some guys out there that would still be with you. While it's true that most guys want oral, not all of them have to have it. You just have to find someone that sees it the same way you do.
2007-02-02 15:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by J D 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
well let me tell you the secret of oral sex. a man loves it and honey let me tell you that if you don't do it he will be having someone else doing it and you won't know. what is wrong with you? that is my favored and once you do it and figure it out it is pretty darn good plus you become very good at it. besides if you do it right babe it don't take you that long anyway. you got to put your imagination into it. after you get it down right it's a breeze and the ones you do it with will never forget you if you are good trust me I know.just don't look at it in a bad way. all loving is good lovin if it's with the right one. maybe someday you will change your mind. other wise you will have a man who is getting it else where.
2007-02-02 15:27:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I like giving a lot more than getting. I prefer the main course too. No nibbling. I could care less if my lady ever gave me oral again.
2007-02-02 15:27:20 · answer #11 · answered by dave w 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋